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I'm gonna quote a blog that I wrote on myspace that'll kill any and every excuse given as to why a person feel that they can't succeed in America.
And I'm going to quote your blog that you wrote on myspace, kill any and every opinion you presented as to why a person feels that everyone can succeed in america and post it here.
Someone told me this a while ago but never really explained it to me. It'd be fair to say that the person that told me this was a rich guy. After taking some time to realize what he meant by that, it's crystal clear what he meant.
So someone gave you a bit of information, that you then repeat here as fact or a "killer" of excuses, yet you never confirm your findings of said information with the person who gave it to you? If what he said was crystal clear, why didn't you understand it when he first told you? How do we know you possess adequate cognitive skills required to use logical reasoning to come to your answer? We don't, therefore everything you've typed is opinion, not to mention you provide absolutely no empirical data to validate any of your claims.
There's no excuse for not succeeding in life.Reason is, if you have to make excuses and blame others, only thing that means is that someone else has more control over your life and destiny than you have.
First, let us define what an excuse is because you keep throwing it around even though I've already said it has nothing to do with excuses. Dictionary.reference defines an excuse as:
1. an explanation offered as a reason for being excused; a plea offered in extenuation of a fault or for release from an obligation, promise, etc.
2. a ground or reason for excusing or being excused.
3. the act of excusing someone or something.
4. a pretext or subterfuge.
5. an inferior or inadequate specimen of something specified.
(For the sake of clarity, numbers provided by the site were changed)
Again, as I have stated in this thread, there are no "excuses" being presented. However, what is being presented is an argument that runs contrary to your belief that people can do for themselves no matter what. You are under the very illogical and highly dubious belief, that people, no matter what, can overcome obstacles, rise to the top and be all they can be. Basically, you believe in the fable known as "the American Dream", or believe in a similar mantra. Surely this belief exhibits blatent and total disregard for reality and evidence that suggest and prove the contrary. Such realities and evidence I'm referring to are capitalism, post-industrialized nations, global economics, child slave labor and McDonaldization. In fact, the caste system I mentioned in the previous post suggests otherwise, yet your blog does nothing to address it or previously mentioned issues. Since we know this to be true, we can now say your blog is not reliable source of information, nor does it provide a critical critique of the problems in our world.
With that being said, how can you tout your blog as a killer of excuses, when nothing you've actually stated in the blog, or in this thread, begins to even address the issue of why the problems exist in the first place?
Plus, there are a million and one ways to be financially successful.
Yet you don't provide ONE example that shows how a person can be financially successful. Why is that?
So as he said, there's no excuse for not succeeding in life. We like to blame other people, blame the economy, blame circumstances, etc., but in the end, those are all excuses.
Surely, some people do like to do what was mentioned, but the facts are many people who want to do better can't and this is what the person you talked to, and yourself, fail to grasp. You are not given excuses or blame, what you are given are factual issues and circumstances that have plagued the world by impeding economic growth at a macro and micro level. If you respond to this post, I'd like for you to take your time to actually address them instead of posting something that fails to address the root of the problem.
If you REALLY wanted to be successful, then you'd find a way around any obstacle. You can do anything in this world that you want, if you BELIEVE you can do it and if you put your mind to it. Anything that you believe and focus on in your mind, you make that your reality.
This is a fallacy. What you fail to grasp is that in order to find a way around any obstacle, you must first identify the obstacle as an obstacle, then you must have the infrastructure or resources to be able to overcome it. If you lack these elements, there is no way you are going to overcome it. We are dealing with the real world here--the tangible--not wishful thinking, blind faith or so-called focus.
If you believe that you're destined to fail because of your surroundings, then that's what'll happen.
That may happen. However, that statement alone does not account for the people who do not adhere to negative self-labeling yet fail. Moreover, it does not take into account real life variables that are found in the environment which may or may not have caused the person to believe negatively in the first place.
When you start to make excuses and blame others for your failure, that simply means that you're putting your life & destiny in the hands of something or someone else.In other words, if you feel that it's someone else's fault you didn't succeed, then you're giving that person control over your life & destiny instead of putting it in your own hands.
I've already addressed this.
You'll never succeed until you start taking full responsibility for everything that happens to you in life, this includes good and bad things. Most times, the problem in our lives can be found just by looking in the mirror. Start looking at life in a more positive way.
You can take full responsibility for everything in the world, but what exactly does taking full responsibility mean? According to you, most of the time problems in our lives can be found just by looking in a mirror, but what about the many instances where the problems were present before we were born? What about problems that are totally out of our control such as racial discrimination? And while I do agree that everyone can benefit from a positive outlook, I know for a fact the world is not peaches & cream, sunshine, chirping birds, blooming flowers and laughter in the air. With that being said, the world is NOT what you make it because it has already been made, and the majority of the roles have already been given.
You also have the individuals that believe they can't succeed because of their surroundings a.k.a "The Hood." That is complete nonsense.
If you study the correlation between poverty and crime/deviance, and look at examples of where the crimes occured, you would see it isn't complete nonsense. Am I saying or implying everyone in "The Hood" is doomed to failure? No, but who has a better chance in this country? A young black male who reads at a third grade level, lacks social skills, has been in the criminal justice system, and barely has enough money to eat a balanced meal, or a young black male who is college educated, has sufficient social proof, has no criminal record, and has never known poverty?
You have people that comes from poverty-stricken countries and make great lives for themselves in America. The Africans, the Middle-Eastern people, The Indians, The Asians, etc.
Because many already have infrastructures in place to help them. Why do you not understand this?
They come to America and open businesses, go to school and live the life that they want.
Do you have any published evidence pertaining to the success of those who have migrated to this country? Second of all, have you considered the CULTURAL differences between people who migrate here, what their values are, what they believe about economics, etc? If so, how does it factor into their success? If not, why haven't you?
So why is it they can come to America and succeed, but people in America feel that they can't?
Refer to the previous questions.
Also, if you don't go to college, still...what's holding you back? We have libraries that you can go to if you want to learn to succeed in life.
Due to economic hardships, access to public libraries are becoming more scarce. However, if the person wanting to succeed can't read beyond a fourth grade level what good is a library? A person can read any type of book, relating to any subject, but if he or she is not able to apply what they've read to their life, or lack the knowledge of
how to do such a thing, what good is a library or a book?
But we all know what would happen if you were to put a library in "The Hood." People would probably go there only to use the internet to check their myspace accounts. So, using the excuse of your environment is also a cop-out.
See above. You are looking at things from a very warped and opinionated perspective that does nothing but perpetuate a cycle of illogical reasoning.
On the flipside of things, you also have individuals that don't want to CHANGE the things that they do, but they expect to get different results out of life. That's the definition of insanity, to do the same things and expect different results.
So how do you change their way of thinking? How do you show them their mentality hinders success?
If you're not happy in your life right now, then the things that you've been doing and thinking in the past aren't working.
Tell that to the millions of women and children who suffer as a result from white slavery (and if you don't know white slavery is a term for sexual slavery.) Tell it to children who work in labor camps and sweat shops. Tell it to the cats in the hood who have ascribed status, and stats, suggesting by the age of 18 they will be in the criminal justice system (and experience increased recidivism rate if they don't leave their environment.)
You're gonna have to change your attitude, thoughts and actions in order to get better results. You can't do the same things over and over and expect different results. That's like getting shocked after sticking your finger in an electrical socket and expecting for it not to shock you the next time you do it.
You're offering solutions but no way how to do the solutions. Why is that?
"If you want things in your life to change, then you're gonna have to change things in your life."
"If you continue to do what you've always done, you'll continue to get what you've always gotten."
This still doesn't address the issue.
There's no more excuses, it's time to get wealthy and start enjoying life. If you're not on the same path, then we need to go our separate ways.
Indeed, this statement overlooks everything in my previous post and does not begin to address the problems of americans (black, white, hispanic, asian, etc.)
In closing, everything you've presented is an excuse.