Is chatting and texting an ex cheating?

[gabe559]

not cheating but im guessing you were thinking of trying to fuck her

 

[Chree]

lol Tony, u shoulda challenged ur girl in some madden, and if she loses, she has to stfu, and if u lose, u cant post in sports forum til next year

 

[Chris9800]

HAHAHAHAHA WTF,NIGGA GROW SUM NUTS AND TELL THAT BITCH SHE BETTER BE COO OR YOUR LEAVING HER ASS,BE A FUCKING MAN,BUT NAW THIS NIGGA WANNA HOP ON SICCNESS AND GET ADVICE FROM NIGGAS THAT DONT EVEN GET PUSSY HAHAHAHAHAHA

 

[The Duke of Earl]

only way to save face now toney is to have sex with the cock tease from high school

 

[savage]

lol Tony, u shoulda challenged ur girl in some madden, and if she loses, she has to stfu, and if u lose, u cant post in sports forum til next year

Chree, if you are horrible at Madden, den i highly suggest you do what you told Tony to do right there lol

 

[prodigy91]

fuck bitchs get money

says the nigga that cant get bitches, and hopes that by getting money hoes pay attention and spend it on em.

 

[prodigy91]

why is it that, that always happens with your ex-bitch tho, no face to face talk, no calling. just emailing and texting..........hhmmm......t-ex-ting

 

[Nuttkase]

Did anyone else think that SuperManning started this thread when they saw it from the main forum page?

 

[:ab:]

someone asked, 'how did she read the text message'.

dude answered the question but i still don't know how she read the message or knew about it.

did she go through your phone? or did you tell her?

 

[Gas One]

Do y'all think I cheated?

ROFL nigga wtf?

fuck is this, blues clues?

thanks for the laugh at 4am i really needed it

 

[Gas One]

and you dont even know parinoia.
lol.
man...i wont even go there.

i got thrown through the fuckin ringer.

 

[Nuttkase]

 

[Gas One]

lmao!

ms paint butchering is hilarious

 

[Nuttkase]

Man, I don't even really remember starting that thread. I was so fucked up. Same with the yo-yo thread.

Those guys are up there on my heroes list now though.

I still don't know where I got the pic from.

 

[:ab:]

who is that, creedence clearwater revival?

 

[Tony]

I never read any replies in this thread so sorry if I'm repeating....

It depends on the intent. It seems friendly and you stated yourself you didnt intend to hook up. Most likely you're a dude just like me and most other dudes on the sicc, and subconsciously, whether you realize it yet or not, there is definitely some thoughts swirling around in your noggin about baggin that broad one last time.....Sounds like she's tryna sabotage your relationship and manipulate you into getting back together with her....Watch them women....scandalous.....

I found myself in a similar situation a couple years ago....Was with my girlfriend for about 4 years and definitely loved her. I had an ex texting me all the time tryna get together with me, and I thought about bagging her but would never do it.....Therefore there was no intent, and not cheating. But I suppose there were inappropriate thoughts, although I never would act on them even if nobody ever found out. Kinda like if a tree falls in the forest and nobody is around, does it make a noise?....kinda like that.....

I agree... but I never even hit before though.

 

[Tony]

someone asked, 'how did she read the text message'.

dude answered the question but i still don't know how she read the message or knew about it.

did she go through your phone? or did you tell her?

She didn't read the text messages, my ex ran her mouth and it somehow got back to my girl.

 

[Tony]

HAHAHAHAHA WTF,NIGGA GROW SUM NUTS AND TELL THAT BITCH SHE BETTER BE COO OR YOUR LEAVING HER ASS,BE A FUCKING MAN,BUT NAW THIS NIGGA WANNA HOP ON SICCNESS AND GET ADVICE FROM NIGGAS THAT DONT EVEN GET PUSSY HAHAHAHAHAHA

LOL, I wasn't asking for advice, just asking if what I did was considered cheating or not. I don't think I cheated but she does so I wanted to see what the folks from the siccness thought about the situation and if they considered what I did cheating.

 

[FreedomLost]

Is chatting and texting an ex cheating?

It all comes down to the specific relationship. And only the two with the commitment can decide.

 

[Filthy Bay Ent]

In my personal opinion, Cheating involves intercourse (of any kind) and or working up to intercourse (I.E dating, kicking it without the other person knowing.)

Your girl prolly feels like you were going to try to work up to it by letting your ex know that the situation in your current relationship isnt going to good. It leaves open the possibilty of having a "second/third" chance. You have to let her know that's not the case and that your ex caught you at a time that you just needed someone to talk to.

You should let her know ahead of time that you will talk to your ex's "as friends" to avoid any future problems like this. Im no expert by any means but ive had about 12 relationships in my lifetime and im 26 atm. One thing you will learn quick is that, as a man, you WILL NEVER fully understand women. Your only hope is to tread cautiously when in a relationship with them.