Man long story short, my girl is pissed at me because she found out I was talking (emailing) an ex girlfriend. She emailed me first though... And I only sent like 3 text messages and they were all replies. These were just friendly chats and nothing else. All we did was just talk about problems we're having in our relationship and then just chatted about our kids and stuff. I think my ex wanted to hook up because she was telling me about all these problems she was having in her marriage, but I just encouraged her to work through them with her husband because she's married with kids. I was just giving her advice. My girl somehow finds out and blew a fuse, calling me a cheater. She feels I cheated because I didn't tell her. But I don't think I cheated because we were only chatting and I wasn't talking to her with the intent to hook up or anything. She talked to my ex and my ex starting making up lies about how we went out to lunch together and all kind of bs.
Do y'all think I cheated? Is my girl over reacting and blowing things out of proportion just because I didn't tell her?