Is chatting and texting an ex cheating?
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I just wrote back to chop it up with her. I mean people can talk without the intent to hook up. And I surely don't want to hit now that she has 3 kids... come on man. I just thought we were cool since we knew each other since 1991.
The text didn't get me in trouble though it's because she didn't know about it.
The text didn't get me in trouble though it's because she didn't know about it.
I never read any replies in this thread so sorry if I'm repeating....
It depends on the intent. It seems friendly and you stated yourself you didnt intend to hook up. Most likely you're a dude just like me and most other dudes on the sicc, and subconsciously, whether you realize it yet or not, there is definitely some thoughts swirling around in your noggin about baggin that broad one last time.....Sounds like she's tryna sabotage your relationship and manipulate you into getting back together with her....Watch them women....scandalous.....
I found myself in a similar situation a couple years ago....Was with my girlfriend for about 4 years and definitely loved her. I had an ex texting me all the time tryna get together with me, and I thought about bagging her but would never do it.....Therefore there was no intent, and not cheating. But I suppose there were inappropriate thoughts, although I never would act on them even if nobody ever found out. Kinda like if a tree falls in the forest and nobody is around, does it make a noise?....kinda like that.....
It depends on the intent. It seems friendly and you stated yourself you didnt intend to hook up. Most likely you're a dude just like me and most other dudes on the sicc, and subconsciously, whether you realize it yet or not, there is definitely some thoughts swirling around in your noggin about baggin that broad one last time.....Sounds like she's tryna sabotage your relationship and manipulate you into getting back together with her....Watch them women....scandalous.....
I found myself in a similar situation a couple years ago....Was with my girlfriend for about 4 years and definitely loved her. I had an ex texting me all the time tryna get together with me, and I thought about bagging her but would never do it.....Therefore there was no intent, and not cheating. But I suppose there were inappropriate thoughts, although I never would act on them even if nobody ever found out. Kinda like if a tree falls in the forest and nobody is around, does it make a noise?....kinda like that.....
yeah you cheated me out of the 3 minutes it took to skim the first page
of course you didnt cheat. cheating is physical contact not having sext
but you did fuck up by bringing up the relatioinship w/ an ex and not deleting the messages. if you're not tryin to hit it all u and an ex should talk about is hey how you doin what you been up to take care peace
of course you didnt cheat. cheating is physical contact not having sext
but you did fuck up by bringing up the relatioinship w/ an ex and not deleting the messages. if you're not tryin to hit it all u and an ex should talk about is hey how you doin what you been up to take care peace
You fucked up on a few levels man.
1. If you're trying to have a successful relationship, you never EVER discuss any problems with another bitch other than your own. Your homies are cool, but to another bitch, you fucked up, you pretty much told your ex that your current bitch needs some get-right. That would have been not an issue had your bitch NOT find out. She went through your cellphone and you got caught slippin. Clear your damn cookies too!
2. You also did some simp shit, you let a bitch tell you about her dudes problems and probably talked back and forth about it. That shit is a man code violation. If your chick was talking about you not being this or that, you would be heated and felt crossed. Not to mention bitches are vindictive as fuck, and need their daily dose of drama to get through the day, you said it yourself, she probably wanted to get after it.
As a dude, I can agree that if you ain't boning then you haven't cheated. But you obviously should know by now that bitches do not think this way lol. This broad is always going to rub your nose in this shit.
Step your gat damn Dr. Phil game up.
1. If you're trying to have a successful relationship, you never EVER discuss any problems with another bitch other than your own. Your homies are cool, but to another bitch, you fucked up, you pretty much told your ex that your current bitch needs some get-right. That would have been not an issue had your bitch NOT find out. She went through your cellphone and you got caught slippin. Clear your damn cookies too!
2. You also did some simp shit, you let a bitch tell you about her dudes problems and probably talked back and forth about it. That shit is a man code violation. If your chick was talking about you not being this or that, you would be heated and felt crossed. Not to mention bitches are vindictive as fuck, and need their daily dose of drama to get through the day, you said it yourself, she probably wanted to get after it.
As a dude, I can agree that if you ain't boning then you haven't cheated. But you obviously should know by now that bitches do not think this way lol. This broad is always going to rub your nose in this shit.
Step your gat damn Dr. Phil game up.
