I find this hard to believe. But sorry, i have a serious moral stance against DV. It may happen more than we know in the NFL, but that doesn't make it right on any account. I am glad they are coming down harder on these issues int he NFL, becuase it not only illegal, its fuckin dangerous. The psychological affect on people who get beat up by men 3X there size can be long lasting. I mean, basically what youre saying is "everyone does it, so its OK". You are better than that.
The idea behind football, IMHO, is that the man on the field, is just that...on the field. Its no different than boxing. You job is to beat the shit out of people...in the RING. Thats it. Many of these guys are friends or at least respect one another and can separate the ring from real life, Tyson is obviously the exception. Thats how i view football: its your job to go out and hit people on the field, but its BUSINESS, not personal. When you go put on your suit and tie after the game, you are now just like any other citizen in the world and you need to abide by the same laws.