You're not getting it man. Regardless of how "outta pocket" the family shit is, I'm telling you that that shit would never happen to you if you carried yourself differently here. Ditch all the stupid "riding nuts" talk, take shit in stride, and you'll be fine. You could make the shittiest music on the planet and we wouldn't care. Just ask for honest opinions and don't get pissed if a bunch of people say it sucks. Ask them why it sucks, listen to what they have to say, and be humble about it. And finally, don't be such a douche about everything all the time.
That's honest advice for you. You can take heed to that advice and you can coexist with us, or you can continue on your cycle of douchery, which will probably lead to another ban in the near future. Your choice breh.