HERESY said:
Some would debate it, but thats something I won't go into.
Please do, but we will take it to another thread.
Why would I need to point out a single reason why? You want me to type a ten page essay explaining why I don't disagree with your statement?
1) See above.
2) You need to stop chopping up paragraphs, and just respond to whole topics at once.
You are the one who introduced the idea to our discussion. I simply wanted clarification.
Then you need to meet me half way. Summarize what I already said, add a few things of your own choosing, and ask if the new elaboration still rings true.
That is one thing you are going to notice about me now. I no longer put up with pointless question-asking. You need to phrase your question in the form of a statement, and then ask if it is agreed upon.
You just mentioned conservatism, and I have yet to see a mealy-mouthed middle-class dread-sporting fuckboy, scream anything. If people are ignorant to knowledge and do not understand it should be on YOU to teach them.
They are not screaming anything because i included the word social; and then elaborated upon what I meant.
Are you honestly not going to be satisfied until i waste 10-20 minutes of my time tracking down an instance of where this happened? Trust me--it has happened. I have no reason to lie about such a petty thing.
And its on you to clarify it when people don't know and ask questions.
You are not a moderator. You are a participant. If you need clarification, then you need to learn how to draw that information out of the other person without using questions or making challenges. If you cannot do this, that is your own fault.
Before a child enters the public (or private) education system they should learn at home. Before they learn about the Federal Government and form likes or dislikes, they should be comfortable with who they are as a person and understand their culture and community. You CANNOT expect a person to all of a sudden fall in love with the government if the person has been constantly mistreated. Before a person owes ANYTHING to their country, they first owe a service to their family and community.
I do not understand what you mean by 'owe a service', but the rest is very agreeable.
"I see no problem in hating a country IF you have a logical reason for doing so" -- This was your original comment. I responded that, seeing as though the Government is the main enabling body for things such as Education, I do not agree.
This has nothing to do with how a child is raised or what they learn growing up. We need to raise our kids to trust the Government 100%, and once they graduate college and find a good paying job, they can believe whatever the fuck they want.
The point is that regardless of what you believe about the Government, people need to be rising out of poverty and living better lives. This is SEVERELY HINDERED when people walk around acting like victims and hating the Gov't that is capable of giving them that better life.
Yes, I agree. Don't hate the country and don't hate the politicians for no reason. Have a reason for your anti-usa rhetoric, and make sure you are able to logically convey your opinions and ideas.
The matter is thus settled.
Keep this in mind when you are dealing with black youth who do not understand the things you do or have the experience you have. No it is not logical to expect a country to change at the drop of a hat. As you mentioned change takes time, but people are crying for change. People are in NEED of change, and if they don't like the current system they have a right to voice opinions.
It also need be understood that not every black youth in the country lives in NYC, Seattle, Los Angeles, et al.
There is a difference between voicing your opinion, and doing like i mentioned earlier and literally tricking people into not filing their FAFSA, which was just plain despicable.
Also despicable, but not quite as much, is politicians that run around yelling "Poor people cannot afford college!" They need to understand that, over time, this ! statement turns into a . statement. "Poor people cannot afford college" the single mother tells herself. "P.P.C.A.C.", the unemployed worker tells himself. And it is saddening.
I do NOT like this government, and I don't do ANY of the things you mentioned. A person who is out sleeping around, taking drugs, etc, are not more likely to hate the government.
First of all, you are mischaracterizing what i said. Second of all, I would still disagree. As for the mischaracterization: "The more someone is out sleeping around, taking drugs, etc, the more likely they are to hate the government."
You are telling me the average crackhead is more likely to trust the government than the average non-crackhead? The same of a common ho? Surely you jest.
They are more likely to have SELF HATRED.
And hypocrisy. This hypocrisy usually manifests itself in a hate and rejection of authority, specifically, Police and the U.S. Government.
Why do you think they are partaking in destructive behavior? They have not been taught a sense of self worth and value, but they need to be taught these things BEFORE someone gives them a flag and "I love the troops" sticker.
How is that so? Are you telling me that people like our friends Sixxness and JoMoDo, who admittedly do drugs, do not have self worth and value?
These people have all the self-worth and value in the world. They CHOOSE to do drugs and they CHOOSE to hate the government.
I don't have belief in the system. I have knowledge of the system, how it operates and how to conduct business. The system does not work, but I have come to understand it and work within it. Simply placing faith in a system that is DESIGNED to keep the average american BROKE will do you no good.
Then i guess this is the part where we disagree.
When a single mother applies for Community College, I want you to tell me how the system is going to fail her. I want you to explain to me, someone who has filed 4 FAFSA's and received numerous grants, how much this woman can expect and in what percentages. Then once you're done guessing, I will go ask my single-parent Mother and she will give you the
real figures. And then of course, you'll explain how she's the exception and not the rule, and we'll continue in this endless circle.
The system works fine. You need to understand that the real problems do not lie in "The System", but in the economies and systems of the cities and areas you are living in.
I've seen it go both ways.
In what numbers? 99/1? 'Technically' that's "both ways". But in reality, it is not.
It is a true story. I will find you the link if you would like.
I HATE the government, and I am currently enrolled in speech 1 and english 1 at the community college. People are less likely to look g.into college because they have NO sense of self worth and have been told they are FAILURES. They have no one to pushing them to apply themselves and believe they can NEVER get a decent paying job because they made mistakes. These are reasons people fail to look into resources availiable to them NOT a dislike for the government.
This is the part where we disagree. You say all these things independent of being
taught a hate for the government; I include the being taught part.
What sense does it make to say, "You're a loser and a failure, but the government is great!" People who believe in the government don't say these things. They have been subconsciously preparing these people that they are berating and insulting to hate the government the same way they do.
And if i might add: I still don't understand why you are speaking from the point of view of a VERY limited minority of the population. I have several friends who, most likely, have NEVER in their LIVES been called failures by any parent or teacher, etc. Yet, they don't feel the need to go to college, even though it would be better for them. This is the reality for most Americans, IMO; and not the one you are promoting.
I know people who have degrees in sociology to science, and they barely eat each month. I also know people who cop, chop and flip who make tens of thousands of dollars each month. What do you tell a person who has seen drugs and quick money since they were born? What do you tell a person who has been in and out of the system since he was 12 years old? Personally I'm not looking for the government to give me shit. I'll carve my own name and make my own way.
Good for them. Your example sounds like the typical "History major" angle. It and ones like it are worthless degrees unless you go on to Graduate school.
BTW...Where in your example is the 99% of drug users who don't turn into dealers, but end up in jail or dead or fucked-up instead? Or are you going to sit there and tell me that a drug-user is more likely to become a big-time dealer, than a college graduate is to find a good-paying job? You can't be serious.
You will NOT be able to save the world or teach everyone, but you owe it to yourself, your history, your people, your family and community to touch ONE person.
Verily.
But all the cliches aside, I will not stop until I am
actively convincing poor people and minorities to move into smaller, safer cities and get this good education and opportunity shit.
But people like you running around being successful and at the same time hating the government, are not going to make my job any easier.