askG said:
lmao@ sydal...i dont hate white ppl...goodfellas is my fave movie...as for your fam living here, you cant tell me future generations of your bloodline will have the same beliefs and understand their heritage and culture as much as you...the majority of whites in this country have been here for a while, theyve established families and generations here, for every immigrant white from another country who comes here today, how many do you think already live here since ww2, the number of whites coming in is nowhere near the number of whites already living here as americans, it will never even come close...and come on, we live in a different world here, you mean to tell me every one of your family members is just like the family back home?the way we live, the way we socialize, the way we think as a country is different than the rest of the worlds...i am curious when your family arrived to this country?...myself and my cousins are first generation mexican americans...we all grew up and socialized with mexicans in our neighborhoods, our families, our schools...we go to mexico, its a different world my friend, were not the same, and the differences will only grow as we have kids and they have kids and they have kids...were no longer just mexicans, were mexican americans, beacuse im not the same as pedro from guadalajara...i go to mexico, i feel at home but im still an outsider, i still get treated as an outsider...why?, because i live different, i dress different, i talk different, i am different from them, even my parents, they came here in their early 20s, and theyre different, were not in the same ballpark as our family back home.
For one, YES, my kids will understand and appreciate their heritage as much as I do because it will be a part of my teachings as a father from the moment my children are born. It was passed on to my mother successfully, she passed it on to me successfully, and I will continue what was started. As far as beliefs go, in general, I will let mine be known and hope my kids believe in the same shit as I do, as deeply as I do...because the shit I believe in, is shit that can never be negative to a normal human being that can think, my thoughts and beliefs are positive, as fuck. Belief in the culture and the family values, they will have that for generations to come...it's a way of life, and any decent Italian out there knows what I mean when I say that. Family, love, shit like that, comes before all...PERIOD!!
About white immigrants...you really can't compare, say, an English or German immigrant to an Italian or Spanish immigrant, they aren't one in the same and never have been.
About my family, I'm not sure on an exact date of arrival in the United States, but it was in the mid-late 19-teens...I believe around 1915, but I'm not TOTALLY sure about that. I just know we have quite a few years to mark the 100th anniversary of the family coming over here. Is everyone in my family like they were back home? Well, my mom speaks English of course, she's 2nd generation here. She eats americanized food but it's not the same to her as Authentic Italian food. She dresses the role, she can't dress like a villager from Northern Italy now can she? She could, but she doesn't, it wouldn't fly. Does she have the same values? Yes. Is she as passionate as they are in Italy? Yes. I have yet to meet a truly Americanized person with as much passion as my mother. My dad is the same way.
My grandparents all passed away before I knew them, except for my moms mother, who was an older version of my mom. My grandparents had the family, and even the Italian and Italian/Irish friends come over and have big fancy meals ALL THE TIME...speaking Italian, eating Italian, drinking Italian, BEING ITALIAN!! My grandfather didn't teach my mom Italian because he wanted her to be Americanized, it didn't work. She has the blood, and then I was born. I taught myself Italian and now I'm giving that gift to her. So, what's left of my family, we're close-knit...always have been and always will be. My uncles are still around, and they're WOPS like me, or I'm a WOP like them.
See, when people move to this country, their culture is USUALLY pretty much stripped after the first or 2nd generation.
As far as my family goes, we don't value the same shit Americanized people value, we don't talk the same way, the kids don't act the same way towards their parents. We have pride, dignity, and honor, something a lot of people in this country don't have. If we had satchels full of big head ben's, we'd throw it away without hesitating, for a loved one. These are things you couldn't pay people to do. You couldn't pay an American to have an entire conversation with his/her hands, all while saying as much words as he/she could count on their fingers. You couldn't pay most White Americans to follow their culture, because people in this country are lazy, and it's easier to just be AMERICAN like everybody else. It's little shit like that, that we have, that will never be taken from us....
AND THAT IS WHAT SEPERATES US FROM THE PEOPLE YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT!!!
P.S. Goodfellas is one of the best movies created...thumbs up to you for that one.