Well...i could have been an asshole with her, but she came at me and asked me if I could lend her money for groceries. But being the guy that I am, I said forget it to myself and took her to the grocery store instead. Had to make sure that's what she needed the money for, i guess you can call me smart for that. Now a days you give a female 20 bucks and she'll spend it on make up or a drink at the club....