I would suggest pickin' up some magazines, thye are always reviewing Software and Gear, as well as tips, and the basics. Try these:
Electronic Musician
Home recording
Recording
Mix
EQ
all very good magazines, I subscribe to all of them, and have helped me a lot. you may not know what they are talkin' about at first, but you catch on pretty quick. Another option is to check your local Community College, a lot do offer classes in recording Arts/Commercial Music, that way you can try out some software/Hardware.
Good Luck Sporadic, and if you have any questions You can hit me on the phone