immigrants were designated to the poverty stricken areas during this time in history. they catered to one another and were segregated by "white america". They relied on one another for survival.some did stay true to their culture. it only makes sense they spoke their native tongue.
to fit in and pursue the so-called "american dream".
i'd be willing to bet your grandfather wanted a better life for his family and did what he had to. he may say that, and in no way am i knocking him, i'm just saying post wwII created the biggest change in our society. people got a taste of freedom and never looked back. coming out west was about opportunity in those days. people were proud to be americans. whether they were really mexican, italian, etc. didnt matter.
to fit in and pursue the so-called "american dream".
i'd be willing to bet your grandfather wanted a better life for his family and did what he had to. he may say that, and in no way am i knocking him, i'm just saying post wwII created the biggest change in our society. people got a taste of freedom and never looked back. coming out west was about opportunity in those days. people were proud to be americans. whether they were really mexican, italian, etc. didnt matter.
I taught my mom some Italian (I taught myself a lot), and she even came to me and said, "Fuck, that's what my parents and their friends were always saying at dinner...NASTY!" That's just how it was in that house.
I completely agree with what you're saying...I know how it was. But I'm telling you my family had/has way too much pride for that shit. If I'm not completely "Americanized", it's because my grandparents and great-grandparents refused to allow a new location to change who they were. It's stuck for about 100 years, give or take a few...and I'm going to pass on the same shit to my kids (as well as their Salvadoran roots).
Anyway, I'm off to sleep. Gotta take the lady to her pre-natal appt. in the morning.