Mista Sinista said:
Normally when you see a white person who only date black people, especially white women who dates black men, you only see them like blk men for non-important reasons, like, for one...our style, looks, and the theory of what black men are packing sexually. Then when you see a white woman date a black man, 90% of the time its the fat, trashy lookin ones. Also...most of them white gurls have deep hatred for black women but at the same time, try to imitate black women to impress black men.
See you right and you wrong. Many of the immature white bitches you see obviously trying to get with black dudes and doin nothin else are no different than men who just want to get some pussy and do nothin else but go after it. I have known many a white bitch who dates black men (don't we all?), and I would say if anything many DO buy the MTV image, the stereotypes, etc.
And in doing so, they DO very much try to imitate black culture. Part of that is befriending black women, which many try to do, or do period. I see less animosity from the white girls who do this than I do from black women towards them. Part of the reason is because the selection of black men is alot smaller than other races because of things like incarceration, death, etc. Some people estimate that on university campuses, for example, especially all-black colleges, there is something like a 2:1 black female/male ratio. And the same applies to all other areas.
Oftentimes when a black man achieves success in the business world or simply with money, the first thing they do is start dating white girls. Black women aren't very appreciative of that, and rightfully so. I've known many, many white girls who have dated black men, and from very, very few have I ever heard shit talked about black women. It's more often the "white" white kids, skaters, stoners, etc., who talk shit, and the white girls who date black dudes, for lack of a shorter term, defending black people, being anti-racist, etc.
Another point...when they wanna get a brotha the first thing they do is throw sex in their face. They never try to get a brotha with their mind and intelluctuality, they use whats between their legs and not whats between their head.
A man can't blame the pussy. A man can only blame himself. Look at the media, listen to music, even listen to the way black men talk to women. There is very often an element of overt sexuality, and girls pick up on this. I'm not saying black men are responsible for the way shit is, but for one reason or another, either out of ignorance OR out of experience, girls go the sexual route. It's a cycle that is fed from all ends. Plus, if we were to speculate that *most* or *many* of the white girls who do this are "hoes", or the "fat nasty bitches", then how else would you expect them to come across?
I feel that if it wasnt for the hip hop image, the unique black look, and the sex theory, white women wouldnt wanna date black men. Same for white men who like black women. They always talk shyt about black women and always say how much better white women are, but when they see how beautiful sistas are, all of a sudden they want a black woman.
Thats bullshyt. Its more to the black race than just what we can do in bed, our style and what we look like. So my point is...a white person will only want a black person only because of looks, sex, and they think it looks cool.
I agree about the hip hop image. I also think subsiding racism has to do with it. I believe the fact that int. relationships are so prevalent is in some small account, a good sign for our country in general.
On the other hand, about white men who date black women, it is even more rare for white guys to talk about how much better white women are, then all of a sudden switch up and date black women. I've dated black girls, mixed girls, whatever, and I know other "white boys" who have too, and most of them tend to be generally pretty well thought out as far as race issues go, or genuinely either from "the streets" or attempting to be hip-hop, or whatever. As far as the shit talking n word using racist who suddenly dates a black woman, nah, that shit does not happen. I'll tell you straight up, I don't know who you heard that shit from, but that ain't how it goes down.