my only problem is that i owe quite a bit of back pay,..but i been paying my shit lately,..there aint no work out here so i had to make my own way to make rent by getting into the storage aution business!,..i make good money but dont make or file taxes!,..but i keep reciepts and i get my daughter often,but not enough time for wut im paying!..i keep telling baby momma to go work something out for mediation or visitation but she just ignores it and starts to act like its gonna start to be a problem,...so now im starting to be like fuck her then she had her chance!...i did the parenting class a while back,so now im thinking of going to the other class to start the paper work to get my daughter on weekends!...BUUTT my baby momma on the other hand,..has no job, has her tweeker parole mother living with her; her lil brothers a parole too,..baby momma earlier this year got put on probation for lying to police for her convict bf,cuz he wreck her car and ran and she said it wus stolen,. then while on probation,she got a d.u.i and got her license suspended and right now shes going to a/a and all that shit!,..i just wonder tho,if i go thru wit it ,by the time the paperwork go thru,shes gonna be done with all her a/a class bullshit and ruin it for me,..but then again,im thinking thats on her record,so i aint worried about it too much,cuz either way they gonna see how shes living,.i aint had no police contact since 97 been off probation since 02!...everytime i go to pick up my daughter,i have my camera phone ready in case i can get a good shot in when she aint around,cuz she lives like a fucking nasty slob!...her car is always filthy too and i got a nice lil pic collection going!....so hopefully soon too,i can get my daughter to live with me cuz that bitch is living fucking foul!,.and i agree,finacially set dont mean shit if the parent isnt teaching good values and keeping their kid in a good healthy enviroment!...but yet,like u guys said,..they slanted on us dads and dont hardly trip on them pig bitches!! FAWKKK!
TO THE FATHERS:
- Thread starter Supa SAV'D OUTT
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yea my bbay moma on welfare.....dont do shit..iI actually heard from alot of different people that where she was living dozens of people were running in and out of her mouth........and my baby momma is on drugs...I havent filed anytihng yet cuz i just got done with dealing with all my dui shit im finished with that and i finally got a job so my life is barely getting put back together but my daughters is first before mine....im not going to lie im trying to get into low income apartments...cuz right now i cant afford antything high.........i wanna be able to take care of my daughter...and not from my fathers house.......im trying..im pushing it........but somewhere down the line i still feel lossed
Damn, I didn't know family court has a D.A.
You should never allow the court to determine what is best for your child. Unfortunately any relationship that ends in spite has an ugly result for the children involved.
Anyone getting raw dogged by the courts over custody, most of the time, are well deserving.
You should never allow the court to determine what is best for your child. Unfortunately any relationship that ends in spite has an ugly result for the children involved.
Anyone getting raw dogged by the courts over custody, most of the time, are well deserving.
if you suspect her of bein on drugs, u can take her to family court & tell them you suspect drug use in the house & that its not the right environment for your kid(s) & that you want her to be randomly drug tested ... soon as she pop the kids are yours. aint nuthin wrong wit gettin on welfare ... as long as you dont abuse it. welfare is here for ppl to use in the time of need i.e (in between jobs, laid off, small check, sick kid) ppl abuse it & makes it have a bad rap. get ur kids & get welfare til your on your feet. you baby momma will have to pay child support whenever she gets a job .. if u dont do it 2 her she wont have a problem doin it to you! u can believe that
Start paying your backpay down ASAP!!!!!!!...Stop making excuses and go file your paperwork....If the baby's mom is living that foul, hire a private investigator....Call Child Protective Services (CPS) and describe the so called foul conditions and the situations of people that surround your daughter....How oftern do you get your daugter cuz you said you get her often...Than you said you are going to file paperwork to get her on weekends...
Ask the judge for supervised visits at a place like the RAINBOW CENTER (google it) they will be able to document how you and your daughter interact and those papers will be sent to the judge...Tell them you and your babies mom should BOTH go there..!!!!! Dont show any hostility towards your baby's mom in court...Go in with the attitude of doing whats best for the child....If she's gotten a DUI it will be on her record....Keep a daily log and write down all contact you have with your baby's mom and date it......SPEND THE MONEY ON A PRIVATE INVESTIGATOR IF THE CONDITIONS ARE FOUL LIKE YOU SAY THEY ARE!!!!!!!!!!
Ask the judge for supervised visits at a place like the RAINBOW CENTER (google it) they will be able to document how you and your daughter interact and those papers will be sent to the judge...Tell them you and your babies mom should BOTH go there..!!!!! Dont show any hostility towards your baby's mom in court...Go in with the attitude of doing whats best for the child....If she's gotten a DUI it will be on her record....Keep a daily log and write down all contact you have with your baby's mom and date it......SPEND THE MONEY ON A PRIVATE INVESTIGATOR IF THE CONDITIONS ARE FOUL LIKE YOU SAY THEY ARE!!!!!!!!!!
Did you read what i said to you homeboy? Go hire a private investigator..Going to court and saying your baby's mom is on drugs without any proof usually dosent hold any weight....GO TO THE RAINBOW CENTER...Stop making excuses....Your done with your DUI shit now keep it pushing mane..I know its hard ive been there belive me....We have all been there...Keep it moving for your daugter....Ive been through this shit for four years of my life..And there is some game i posted in previous posts of what worked for me.....If you read it and make some calls and file your paperwork, things will begin to be on the UP AND UP....Keep yourself out of trouble for the time being...Dont have any contact with police and Drink Beer inside your house and dont leave......If your at the homies house drinking stay there and sleep in the garage if you have 2..........
they taken it cool, they mom painted a picture that they didnt wanna comeback & that they didnt wanna talk 2 me & she wasnt lettin me talk to em but now after the judge told her that i was awarded custody i spoke to my daughters & they sound cool, like nuthin happen & they cant wait to see they friends thats out here. my daughters are 7 & 9 so they kinda still young & real impressionable
@ X LOC and P.E. how is the process going? have you cats taken any steps into all the advice that was dropped in this thread? have you looked into anything....
I will bump the hell out this thread....Its easy to complain about shit but not as easy to do something about it....I'm just trying to encourage you cats to do something....Sav'd Outt made it happen along with myself and a couple others handled their bizz it looks like...Keep the trend going...
I will bump the hell out this thread....Its easy to complain about shit but not as easy to do something about it....I'm just trying to encourage you cats to do something....Sav'd Outt made it happen along with myself and a couple others handled their bizz it looks like...Keep the trend going...
Never knew my dad, but I have 3 children now (2 boys, 1 girl), and those kids are my heart. Nothing bad can ever come from them...until they learn to talk. Then it's all downhill. I'm with dude that said he was going to pistol whip some teenage boys. I've been investing in guns just for that sole purpose. LOL
Kids are great. Adults suck. Take care of your kids, folks. Don't expect them to know everything when they say they do. Teach them something worthwhile. Don't take them for granted, love them every single day. And men, don't be afraid to tell your boys that you love them. I do every day, and the same can be said for them, too.
And my daughter...there aren't words to describe it. Period. Someone hit it on the head when they said it was a ''different'' kind of love with boys and girls. I can't explain it, but I feel that, too.
Kids are great. Adults suck. Take care of your kids, folks. Don't expect them to know everything when they say they do. Teach them something worthwhile. Don't take them for granted, love them every single day. And men, don't be afraid to tell your boys that you love them. I do every day, and the same can be said for them, too.
And my daughter...there aren't words to describe it. Period. Someone hit it on the head when they said it was a ''different'' kind of love with boys and girls. I can't explain it, but I feel that, too.