This nigga slapped the hell out of his broad...damn..
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First and foremost, anybody at any time can come knockin' on my door over some shit I did as a teenager. There is ALWAYS that chance, regardless of how much I change in life and how good of a person I am NOW. My family can bounce, and I'll stay. You think I've never faced a gun while with innocent people? I have. It sucks, but there's always a way to get them out of the situation.
Second, I am a family man now with a house, so when I'm with my dudes we are chillin' here, eating, and being good people. My goons aren't stupid, they are down to earth...but they can get nutty if they have to. They don't invite me anywhere if there COULD be an issue, because they respect my position. You won't catch me out at clubs or random bars, so I've removed myself from most bad situations there alone. IF I AM out with the goon types, it's because we are doing something business related...and my son would not be with me. Again, doesn't happen often 'cause I conduct my business from home.
Third, you don't know me like that to pass that judgment on me my dude. I'm not telling you how fucked up it is to let some little chick get her ass beat by a dude twice her size and how fucked up that example is to your kids, am I? Naw, 'cause I don't know you like that. I am a father FIRST AND FOREMOST. I've done a complete 180 in the last 6 years (started early because I knew I wanted kids, and I wanted to be around when they grow up). I'd never put my child OR my girl in a situation that may hurt them. If I feel I might run into somebody that has an old issue with me, they stay home. But I also understand that there is no running away from your past, no matter how long ago it was. If you think you evade those same issues because you live a clean life NOW, you're the ignorant one.
As for me, I take care of my son and there is no way in hell anybody will hurt him as long as I'm breathing. I also won't shield him from reality...he needs to know how life is so he doesn't have to find out the hard way. So yes, he is in GREAT hands.
I know that if I stood by and let a dude beat his girl (or a child), he could kill them. Either there, or at home...but it could happen. Then what? You watched somebody get beat and they ended up dead. You gonna tell your son that you're a man after that? And you expect him to listen? Shit.
Second, I am a family man now with a house, so when I'm with my dudes we are chillin' here, eating, and being good people. My goons aren't stupid, they are down to earth...but they can get nutty if they have to. They don't invite me anywhere if there COULD be an issue, because they respect my position. You won't catch me out at clubs or random bars, so I've removed myself from most bad situations there alone. IF I AM out with the goon types, it's because we are doing something business related...and my son would not be with me. Again, doesn't happen often 'cause I conduct my business from home.
Third, you don't know me like that to pass that judgment on me my dude. I'm not telling you how fucked up it is to let some little chick get her ass beat by a dude twice her size and how fucked up that example is to your kids, am I? Naw, 'cause I don't know you like that. I am a father FIRST AND FOREMOST. I've done a complete 180 in the last 6 years (started early because I knew I wanted kids, and I wanted to be around when they grow up). I'd never put my child OR my girl in a situation that may hurt them. If I feel I might run into somebody that has an old issue with me, they stay home. But I also understand that there is no running away from your past, no matter how long ago it was. If you think you evade those same issues because you live a clean life NOW, you're the ignorant one.
As for me, I take care of my son and there is no way in hell anybody will hurt him as long as I'm breathing. I also won't shield him from reality...he needs to know how life is so he doesn't have to find out the hard way. So yes, he is in GREAT hands.
I know that if I stood by and let a dude beat his girl (or a child), he could kill them. Either there, or at home...but it could happen. Then what? You watched somebody get beat and they ended up dead. You gonna tell your son that you're a man after that? And you expect him to listen? Shit.
I never mentioned about priors. I'm talking about adding more fuel to the fire that is completely unnecessary. Again, there is a fine line it all & nobody can really call it unless they are put in that situation.
All I'm saying is, you came in this thread with a tough guy attitude and I'm simply stating to think before acting.
So let me put it like this, say I'm walking down the street with my son and I see you beating the shit out of somebody, almost about to kill him. So I take the stand to show my son I need to protect that helpless person and I teach him by beating the shit out of you (hypothetically... it's a discussion.) Because he needs to learn to take action in what he believes in like daddy?
After it's all said and done I come to find out that the dude you were beating on molested a relative of yours and you were actually in the right (sort of speak.) So the lesson I teach my son is not to jump into conclusions.
All I'm saying is to think, before you act on a situation. This is not about your past, how tough you are, how many "goons" you hang with, how big they are etc. It is all irrelevant. It's about what our kids see as their fathers.
We're in a whole new world form when we were kids, Breh. And I'm sure just like every parent out there, we all want our kids to have a better life than ours. And the mistakes we've made growing up, try and avoid our kids from doing them. And maybe one day before we leave this earth, we get to see a better world.
All I'm saying is, you came in this thread with a tough guy attitude and I'm simply stating to think before acting.
So let me put it like this, say I'm walking down the street with my son and I see you beating the shit out of somebody, almost about to kill him. So I take the stand to show my son I need to protect that helpless person and I teach him by beating the shit out of you (hypothetically... it's a discussion.) Because he needs to learn to take action in what he believes in like daddy?
After it's all said and done I come to find out that the dude you were beating on molested a relative of yours and you were actually in the right (sort of speak.) So the lesson I teach my son is not to jump into conclusions.
All I'm saying is to think, before you act on a situation. This is not about your past, how tough you are, how many "goons" you hang with, how big they are etc. It is all irrelevant. It's about what our kids see as their fathers.
We're in a whole new world form when we were kids, Breh. And I'm sure just like every parent out there, we all want our kids to have a better life than ours. And the mistakes we've made growing up, try and avoid our kids from doing them. And maybe one day before we leave this earth, we get to see a better world.
Everything is irrelevant when it comes to me and my little man...and I ALWAYS think before I act. I calculate each move before I make it, which is probably why I am where I am. I'm not huge on fighting, so I don't do it unless it's absolutely necessary. But I understand that in most situations like that, even saying "Hey man, knock that shit off" will result in a whole new ball of shit...and you have to be ready for it.
I agree that you can't jump to conclusions, but I also know that if you don't step in sometimes, something really bad can happen. It's like my cousin's boy who got jumped in front of all his boys, and his boys let it go down...and dude ended up getting stabbed like 14 times.
If I feel it's that serious, it's for a reason. I wouldn't be able to live with myself if I stood back and that chick ended up dying that day.
I agree that you can't jump to conclusions, but I also know that if you don't step in sometimes, something really bad can happen. It's like my cousin's boy who got jumped in front of all his boys, and his boys let it go down...and dude ended up getting stabbed like 14 times.
If I feel it's that serious, it's for a reason. I wouldn't be able to live with myself if I stood back and that chick ended up dying that day.
@Sydal, there is no such thing as a nice "goon." There's a reason why people use the word "goon." Who's to say you step in to defend the woman, and she turns on you for getting in her business? It's happened before. Why would you need your goons support, if he's beating her ass on his lonesome? Knuckle up with him and leave your boy's to the side. What's the use in using a weapon if you're putting yourself in that situation? You think ol' girl is gonna give a shit if you get your ass beat or killed defending her? If she can't defend herself, 9 out of 10, she's not gonna defend the next person. I don't know you from a pebble to a boulder, but what would you gain from this scenario?
"Goon" is a modern day word for thug, but it just sounds cool now. Plies been using that forever and half of these dudes claiming to be "goons" would turn & run track & field if they were really caught in a situation. I means nothing different, it's the same shit, new label is all.
It's easy to be a "goon" now a days. Get a bunch of tattoos of shit you never really wanted, but got them for the sake of filling up your arms, not because they really meant something to you. And make it look like you spent time behind bars when you never did.
That's not taking nothing away from the real "goons" out there, I'm just saying this whole "goon" shit has become more of a fad to a lot of people.
It's easy to be a "goon" now a days. Get a bunch of tattoos of shit you never really wanted, but got them for the sake of filling up your arms, not because they really meant something to you. And make it look like you spent time behind bars when you never did.
That's not taking nothing away from the real "goons" out there, I'm just saying this whole "goon" shit has become more of a fad to a lot of people.
What a waste of time, I just put your sig picture into a tiny eye reverse image search to try and find that girls name. I found it out and went to find another picture of her, posted it, then realized if I had stopped to read this thread the answer was already given. I didn't even know someone asked you. I just saw the picture and thought who the fuck is this. God damnit.
Nobody said there was such a thing as a nice "goon". I said my "goons" are down to earth cats who get nutty when they have to. Not that far off from anybody else that does hood shit but has a brain. Are you insinuating that "goons" don't have the mental capacity to be decent people? My dudes will kick it with you, drink with you, laugh with you, etc. etc....but if you step out of line, they'll bust jaws.
If a chick turned on me for being a good person, so be it. I'll turn my back and let her get her ass whooped.
Nobody said I needed support. If I'm ever in a situation where I see a dude beating the fuck out of some chick in public, I'd most likely be with my dudes. And in a case like that, it's not something that is discussed...it's something where everybody would get up, go take care of the situation, and that's that. I wouldn't have to say "Hey y'all, come help me"...in fact, I probably wouldn't even be the first dude over there 'cause I'm not as fast as some of those cats.
We would react that way because we respect women...probably because the majority of us learned from our mothers.
I don't do things for people to "gain" anything...I do them because that's the type of person I am....that's how I was raised.
In any case, my reaction would be the same for a kid being kidnapped or beaten in front of me. A person attacking a child could kill me, too...would it be a bad idea to protect a kid because the dude might kill me or see my family and I and try to kill me while I'm with them?
If a chick turned on me for being a good person, so be it. I'll turn my back and let her get her ass whooped.
Nobody said I needed support. If I'm ever in a situation where I see a dude beating the fuck out of some chick in public, I'd most likely be with my dudes. And in a case like that, it's not something that is discussed...it's something where everybody would get up, go take care of the situation, and that's that. I wouldn't have to say "Hey y'all, come help me"...in fact, I probably wouldn't even be the first dude over there 'cause I'm not as fast as some of those cats.
We would react that way because we respect women...probably because the majority of us learned from our mothers.
I don't do things for people to "gain" anything...I do them because that's the type of person I am....that's how I was raised.
In any case, my reaction would be the same for a kid being kidnapped or beaten in front of me. A person attacking a child could kill me, too...would it be a bad idea to protect a kid because the dude might kill me or see my family and I and try to kill me while I'm with them?
