This nigga slapped the hell out of his broad...damn..
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I feel you, Bro, but aside from all the programs & laws there are now a child often times doesn't have much knowledge of certain things. And it's a lot easier to instill fear into them. So yes, I think I speak for everyone when I say most people would be quick to make a phone call etc.
Oppose to a grown adult who knows right from wrong and is very aware that she has a choice.
It's not even about chivalry, it's about what's RIGHT! Like HIM is saying, what would your response be if it was a child getting slapped up...or kidnapped? Because in that situation, you can also get your ass shot.
@ Gemini, no disrespect taken. I'm not contradicting myself though man...I'm an intelligent person, but I also don't fake it when it comes to what I believe. If a woman is getting the shit beat out of her, or if a kid is getting the shit beat out of him...I will step in regardless of potential consequences...that's who I am as a man.
About being a father, I am a proud father also. HOWEVER, how would I tell my child to stand up for what's right and not do the same? Yes, he benefits from having me around, but if he saw me let shit like that go down, how can I sit there and tell him to stand up for what's RIGHT instead of what's convenient?
@ Gemini, no disrespect taken. I'm not contradicting myself though man...I'm an intelligent person, but I also don't fake it when it comes to what I believe. If a woman is getting the shit beat out of her, or if a kid is getting the shit beat out of him...I will step in regardless of potential consequences...that's who I am as a man.
About being a father, I am a proud father also. HOWEVER, how would I tell my child to stand up for what's right and not do the same? Yes, he benefits from having me around, but if he saw me let shit like that go down, how can I sit there and tell him to stand up for what's RIGHT instead of what's convenient?
I respect this as well....but I also feel Gemini in the point that adults know that there is a way out and that they dont have to deal with it....I know its psychological, which is more severe type of punishment than physical...because once you control someone's mind, you have control of that person....
In this incident, that nigga had control of that chick's mind..you can tell by his swag in how he was slapping her up and how she reacted..that wasnt the first time and unfortunately, if she doesnt leave that wont be the last time...when she ran down the hall he didnt even chase her, because he knew she was coming back....thats crazy...
The nigga was just too comfortable.....
In this incident, that nigga had control of that chick's mind..you can tell by his swag in how he was slapping her up and how she reacted..that wasnt the first time and unfortunately, if she doesnt leave that wont be the last time...when she ran down the hall he didnt even chase her, because he knew she was coming back....thats crazy...
The nigga was just too comfortable.....
You don't even have to run in there on some hog "I'ma beat your ass" type of shit...but if you just watch it and/or walk away without at least SAYING something, then to me you're just as bad as the dude doing the beating.
Of course I will teach my son to pick his battles, but I will never tell him he can't change the world. Civil Rights leaders started the ball rolling to change the world as it was....and they did a pretty good job (still changing to this day). So why would I tell my son he can't change the world? For all we know, he might say or do something that makes every person on the planet stop and think.
If my son tells me he doesn't like something, I will tell him to CHANGE IT! That's the problem with the world today...everybody bitches about shit, but nobody has the nuts to DO anything about it.
Of course I will teach my son to pick his battles, but I will never tell him he can't change the world. Civil Rights leaders started the ball rolling to change the world as it was....and they did a pretty good job (still changing to this day). So why would I tell my son he can't change the world? For all we know, he might say or do something that makes every person on the planet stop and think.
If my son tells me he doesn't like something, I will tell him to CHANGE IT! That's the problem with the world today...everybody bitches about shit, but nobody has the nuts to DO anything about it.
I believe in handling business and teaching kids that there is a balance. If you feel that strong about it make that phone call, make a wise choice to take that stand.
Yet, what examples are we teaching our kids when we say things like, "Me and my goons would of mopped him up." or "They don't know what I have in my back, or what they're up against."
I think the change should start at home and lead by example if you truly want him to make a difference in the world.
Yet, what examples are we teaching our kids when we say things like, "Me and my goons would of mopped him up." or "They don't know what I have in my back, or what they're up against."
I think the change should start at home and lead by example if you truly want him to make a difference in the world.
For one, if I'm out with my boys like that, my son is not with me. If shit went down that way he wouldn't be there to witness it. If I got in trouble for it, I'd explain to him that I was helping somebody who was being hurt by somebody else.
Also, I don't roll around with a gun in my waist. My point was, just like I don't know what he has, he doesn't know what I have. I could have a hand cannon or a chop stick, but that wouldn't stop him from doing what he has to do...just like it wouldn't stop me from doing what I have to do.
I'm not a criminal, so it wouldn't be too hard for me to show my son the right way and the wrong way. My little man is in GREAT hands.
To each his own.
Also, I don't roll around with a gun in my waist. My point was, just like I don't know what he has, he doesn't know what I have. I could have a hand cannon or a chop stick, but that wouldn't stop him from doing what he has to do...just like it wouldn't stop me from doing what I have to do.
I'm not a criminal, so it wouldn't be too hard for me to show my son the right way and the wrong way. My little man is in GREAT hands.
To each his own.
Two totally different scenarios there, bro. The lion is trying to eat, not control another animal for his own lack of self-confidence. That's nature.
Humans, on the other hand, have the mental ability to know right from wrong, and have the ability to control their actions. Lions do not think on that level.
Humans, on the other hand, have the mental ability to know right from wrong, and have the ability to control their actions. Lions do not think on that level.
Okay, so what if your on family time and some fool you fucked up on another day (with your "goons") catches you with your family? Great choices you made being a family man? Should I be impressed? Should somebody else jump in the mix now to save you because some real goon is shooting at you and your family? All due to the the wrong choices you decided to take when your with your "goons?" Never thinking once to stay clean due to the fact that you are a father first above all. In great hands? How great is it when you put your child at risk for your own ignorance?