damn i just wanted to see what ppl said, and i guess im the only one who voted to "keep da peace wit yo fam..."
i just think you shouldnt let your mom or sister babysit your kid or anything like that. but def come around and show your face at least once every few months. and if you end up doing really well for yourself and have the time and money in the future try to intervene and save your mom, sister, niece/nephews, and i guess your pops now too. wouldnt be easy by any means but ppl have recovered. holla!!!