separate myself from problems/family?

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what should i do? read it all first

  • leave em behind.dont let your kid around that shit

    Votes: 15 75.0%

  • keep da peace. no matter what they is yo fam

    Votes: 1 5.0%

  • I wrote some real shit read it

    Votes: 4 20.0%
  • Total voters
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siccness-user

siccness-user

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#21
Mar 21, 2007
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just do you, and help your family by improving habits,

not by giving them money, they'll smoke all that shit

family isnt about having foes and shit,

just stress hits hard

just let them know that whenever they need you you'll be there,

its also not a good idea to rub it in their face when they come to you

as far as the kids, i dont know about that

if it makes you feel better, thousand of people across the ghetto go throu similar stuff

keep ya head up

(also, siccness advice is usually bad for you )
 
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rekomstop

Sicc OG
#24
Mar 4, 2007
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hm, i'd say to relieve yourself of the burden to just do what you said about the kid thing, just do it more extreme.

just stay the fuck away from them, and if they ask to see the baby say you don't want them around unless they gonna be clean and straight. Say you don't want your baby to have to deal with that, and feel compelled to deal with mothafuckas that fuck over their own family for some money.

if theydon't understand just move farther away and change your number, don't ever call them, etc.

just because someone is family don't make them entitled to fuckin you over, they are humans just like me and you, and if i did shady shit to you, obviously you would never wanna deal w/ me again, right?

People always allow the fact that someone is 'related' to get in the way. obviously they aren't gonna change anytime soon. But it sounds like the 3 kids get the butt end of the deal, which is sad. Where's the dad in all of this? why doesn't he step up and take care of the kids?
 
numba2stunna

numba2stunna

Sicc OG
#25
Jun 4, 2004
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Stay away from them... do what is best for yourself and the family your starting... you can't help them if they don't want to help themselves.... all that's going to happen is they are going to drag you down with them.
 
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William206

Sicc OG
#26
Aug 11, 2003
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rekomstop said:
hm, i'd say to relieve yourself of the burden to just do what you said about the kid thing, just do it more extreme.

just stay the fuck away from them, and if they ask to see the baby say you don't want them around unless they gonna be clean and straight. Say you don't want your baby to have to deal with that, and feel compelled to deal with mothafuckas that fuck over their own family for some money.

if theydon't understand just move farther away and change your number, don't ever call them, etc.

just because someone is family don't make them entitled to fuckin you over, they are humans just like me and you, and if i did shady shit to you, obviously you would never wanna deal w/ me again, right?

People always allow the fact that someone is 'related' to get in the way. obviously they aren't gonna change anytime soon. But it sounds like the 3 kids get the butt end of the deal, which is sad. Where's the dad in all of this? why doesn't he step up and take care of the kids?
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hes the of it all worst, maybe i see it that way becuz he aint my family, but nigga cant even "watch" his own kids..

Why the fuck would that nigga have to be asked to fucking sit with his own kids?

they just wanna sell dope.. they are as addicts to the money, but they aint really got shit to show for it.. lots of nice shit.. just no where to keep it.. I dont ever understand that



thanks for the advice.. you just backing up my own thoughts of leaving.. making me feel better about it.. I prob knew thats what was gonna happen when i wrote this shit.
 
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rekomstop

Sicc OG
#27
Mar 4, 2007
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lol cause you can buy stolen shit and keep that but its hard to buy a stolen house lol.

well there is nothing you can do about the kids unless you can take care of them, and that would take a lot of court decisions, otherwise just move on.

try to stay in touch w/ the kids if they are old enough to call you n stuff, if not, there really is nothin you can do but move away and become who YOU need to be.
 
MRTHECOSE

MRTHECOSE

Sicc OG
#29
Oct 30, 2002
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BOUNCE.. GET ON WIT YOUR LIFE..DONT LET OTHER PEOPLES DECISIONS NEGATIVELY EFFECT YOUR LIFE AND YOUR CHILD'S .

IT AINT YOUR FAULT THEY DECIDED TO DO THAT CRAP... GOOD RIDDENCE TO BAD RUBBISH. FAMILY SHAMILY .. JUST CUZ THEY FAM DONT MEAN U NEED TO BE THERE AND LIVE A FUCKED UP LIFE...
 
Stalka All Day

Stalka All Day

Yeezy Taught Me
#30
Jun 28, 2007
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ECOSE said:
BOUNCE.. GET ON WIT YOUR LIFE..DONT LET OTHER PEOPLES DECISIONS NEGATIVELY EFFECT YOUR LIFE AND YOUR CHILD'S .

IT AINT YOUR FAULT THEY DECIDED TO DO THAT CRAP... GOOD RIDDENCE TO BAD RUBBISH. FAMILY SHAMILY .. JUST CUZ THEY FAM DONT MEAN U NEED TO BE THERE AND LIVE A FUCKED UP LIFE...
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COSIGN! COSIGN! COSIGN!
 
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William206

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#35
Aug 11, 2003
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^^^ what i always find funny. is how when you are first gonna do a drug.. or havnt and fuckers want you to do em.

they will give it to ya for free no problems.. just to get ya hooked and then its all about the money. shits cracks me up
 
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All 4 the Bay

Sicc OG
#36
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I used to live with a D-Boy. He got caught up. They raided our apartment. Broke my bedroom door down. Trash my bedroom looking for dope. I do not sell. He also had stolen notebooks he bought from someone. They decided to take my laptop since I didnt' have my reciept. Its been a year. They still have my laptop.

To be honest, it's not worth it esp if you're doing dirt as well. If someone in your household gets caught up best believe you will be dragged right into it. Keep yourself clean.
 
Stalka All Day

Stalka All Day

Yeezy Taught Me
#37
Jun 28, 2007
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All 4 the Bay said:
I used to live with a D-Boy. He got caught up. They raided our apartment. Broke my bedroom door down. Trash my bedroom looking for dope. I do not sell. He also had stolen notebooks he bought from someone. They decided to take my laptop since I didnt' have my reciept. Its been a year. They still have my laptop.

To be honest, it's not worth it esp if you're doing dirt as well. If someone in your household gets caught up best believe you will be dragged right into it. Keep yourself clean.
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truth...
my girl has her "friend" laid up in her house with his brothers and they doing all kinds of shit in that house....she has two children under the age of two and is likely to get pregnant anytime soon again...its one thing if you gonna be stupid with ur own life, but when kids are involved...pshhh...how could you put your kids in that environment....ive told her off about that shit many times...all she cares about is having fun...one of these days dudes gonna get caught slipping and shes gonna lose the house AND her kids....just cause she wanted to have a good time
 
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R

Sicc OG
#38
Dec 7, 2005
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treat people the way they treat you. focus on givin your kid the best quality of life you can and if that means having to separate yourself from family then so be it. also, not suuggestin you do this but if that were my sis id have paid someone to do something terrible by now...
 
DFresh77

DFresh77

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#39
Dec 4, 2006
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#39
ECOSE said:
BOUNCE.. GET ON WIT YOUR LIFE..DONT LET OTHER PEOPLES DECISIONS NEGATIVELY EFFECT YOUR LIFE AND YOUR CHILD'S .

IT AINT YOUR FAULT THEY DECIDED TO DO THAT CRAP... GOOD RIDDANCE TO BAD RUBBISH. FAMILY SHAMILY .. JUST CUZ THEY FAM DONT MEAN U NEED TO BE THERE AND LIVE A FUCKED UP LIFE...
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read what ECOSE is telling ya...that's some real shit...
 
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