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what should i do? read it all first

  • leave em behind.dont let your kid around that shit

    Votes: 15 75.0%

  • keep da peace. no matter what they is yo fam

    Votes: 1 5.0%

  • I wrote some real shit read it

    Votes: 4 20.0%
  • Total voters
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William206

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my sister sells dope.. has since i was like 7 she was like 14. she was just doing what was around us from day 1.

I kept away from that shit, as much as i could atlest.

My mom smokes (everyday i wish she would stop) since i was like 3.

Now my sister beefs with my mom cuz my mom goes thru other people sometimes,and my sister see that as fucked up.

But my mom always is wathcing her kids and shit.. like 4 days a week. so she can go out and do what she does.

where I come into this really. is my sisters calls me and tells me how fucked up my mom is .. and says shes a fiend and shit

Now.. thats my fucking moms.. i cant let my sister talk shit, especially since she sells that shit to her on a weekly.

Now my mom smokes but she aint no fiend, I have seen alot worse.


I just want to be done with all of it.. my bro aint here everyones going crazy now.

So its like .. what should i do?
I aint got a clue and no one to fucking talk to about it.

I dont want my mom around my up comin child.. cuz i dont want her to do the shit she did to me when i was younger, to my child, shit like lies and letting me down at every turn.

I love my mom....now...
and i love my sister.. but I dont want my kid around her either.. cuz as long as it makes her money she doenst care what the fuck she does to people. I dont even think she notices how fucked up she does shit somtimes.

Oh and im the younger brother, so "i cant tell her shit about life" as she likes to say. and she always want to fight when someone try to tell her some real shit. Like " its not your life anymore Its your fucking kids you need to get shit straight".

So what im thinking about doing is, telling my mom she cant be around my kid anykind of high or drunk, or alone ever. till she stops smoking.

and tell my sister i wont ever let her be alone with my kid till she stops and gets shit straight.

if they never show any kind of change.. i just wont let em be around me or my child.

I am sick of all the drama all the lies and all the shit talking behind backs


So i dont know if anyone has had to choose or deal with shit like this .. but im sure they have.. maybe not on this site.

is it wrong to say fuck em and try to make everything good for my family im starting or should i just try and do as i have and keep the peace?

cuz i dont know whats gonna happen when i leave.. my sisters kids prob gonna end up in foster care ( just like i did) and my mom will go overboard and smoke her self to death.. cuz i aint ever teated my mom like shit, like my bro and sis. this might push her over the edge if she sees her youngest turn on her, in a way.

shit theres more .. but i can speak on it right now

no matter what happens life goes on, I cant ever get away from the drama
 
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William206

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Just want to know what yall would do.

Im prob just gonna keep the peace.. but who knows ill do what comes to mind

thinking about beating my sisters ass.. let her know shit aint about her.. i aint ever hit her.. but I think if i do she might see some light


wish i believed it god, then i could pray and feel like i did some good.. but that shit doesnt do any fucking good
 
Gas One

Gas One

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i think you should fall back and live your life

youre not gonna control what was around you when you were a baby

if you dont like it keep your distance

ive had to do that with specific family members over somewhat of the same thing, im just in a different position than you, more like your sisters.

they will change when they are ready to do so
and if they are never ready then....just accept that bruh and keep pushin and make your life better on behalf of seeing their downfalls

goodluck i know how it is to go against the odds with a family of the sort

but they have to want it for themselves and no amount of talking or whingin will change it
 
Stalka All Day

Stalka All Day

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Jun 28, 2007
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William206 said:
Im 22 and shes 29

shes not my little sis
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well u said she was gonna end up in foster care.....sooooooooooooooooooooooo are their any children aside from your own child that is involved.....

cause if its just u and ur kid, then fuck them....worry about yourself and your kids....you shouldnt have to carry that weight on your shoulders....if you are grown and are able to take care of yourself...then bounce...it sounds like your family is fucked up and you being on the sideline aint helping any...i seriously doubt u can do anything to change it so get on with yours
 
HiLsyde707Kloun

HiLsyde707Kloun

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honestly, I would move away... I didn't get a chance to read all of it, so idono if you're living around your mom/sister or w/e, but I would really just bounce and try to get as far away or sit down w/ your family if you could and talk with them about the situation. PUtting it all out in the open may help the situation, it may not. But you do need someone to talk to about this... Maybe some counseling. Good luck with that, man. I defineitely wouldn't let my kid arouhnd that shit.
 
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William206

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HiLsyde707Kloun said:
honestly, I would move away... I didn't get a chance to read all of it, so idono if you're living around your mom/sister or w/e, but I would really just bounce and try to get as far away or sit down w/ your family if you could and talk with them about the situation. PUtting it all out in the open may help the situation, it may not. But you do need someone to talk to about this... Maybe some counseling. Good luck with that, man. I defineitely wouldn't let my kid arouhnd that shit.
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thinking about moving to canada. or some shit.

Im gonna prob tell my sister we need to go head up.. after i talk shit out with everyone cuz i dont think she will see reason

haha and if her big ass boyfriend trys to step up.. ill hav eto stab his ass in the face.. Damn..
 
Stalka All Day

Stalka All Day

Yeezy Taught Me
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like i gave you some solid advice.....i really think you should just say fuck them....you shouldnt have to be burdened by their mistakes in life....if you doing good in your life then you dont need them dragging you down with them...
 
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