No situation ever warrants a man hitting a woman like she was another man. I know with my ex, there were things that came out of my mouth worthy of a good shove into a wall, but I never deserved any of the hitting kicking or choking. To me, after the fact, it shows me that he is weak as fuck & my words could break him to a point where his mind didn't work anymore & all he could do was act. Seems like thats true about a lot of 'tough guys'.
Fuck Ray McDonald if he did hit his woman, & if it's true I hope Coach throws his ass off the team. But no charges have been filed yet. The girlfriend could have been mad & lied. Who knows. Anyone can get arrested, even innocent people. & I'm not defending him cuz I'm a Niner. I'm defending him because I'm an American & in America everyone is innocent until proven guilty. Ray Rice proved himself guilty on video.