Movin in with your lady
- Thread starter 4SidedLie
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She does think this sites pretty stupid. but its not my choice to move in with each other its kinda forced 
lol i was just reading this and my girl came in the room and i told her i was about to go smoke and asked if she wanted to and she said no cuz she watchin her tv show and i said he tv shows suck dick and she said "so does that website"
I got sum advice.
1.Realize that men and women tho both human do not think of things the same way...so if sumthing seems like absolute common sense 2 you it may not be 4 her....keep an open mind
2.Even if your right about somthing and shes bein stupid and difficult dont try and make her understand you or that what she's doin is stupid...just give eachother a lil space or take a drive...women cant help bein emotional retards....so basically ive noticed with a women it aint what u say its how u say it.
3.Dont hide anything...even if it aint a big deal.
4.remember 2 stay kind 2 eachother...youll both get sick of eachother it just happens...remember that u like this girl n stayed with her 4 a reason,so treat her like that...cuz they can tell if u sick of em and than its nuthin but crybaby bullshit.
5.Stay tru 2 yrself...she might ask u 2 quit hustlin or start dressin a certain way n when u change 4 sombody yr no longer yourself...its good 2 grow up n c things from other angles but if u turn in2 a puppet than u aint the person the fell in love with n end up feelin hella dumb n just end up goin back 2 yr roots anyways.
1.Realize that men and women tho both human do not think of things the same way...so if sumthing seems like absolute common sense 2 you it may not be 4 her....keep an open mind
2.Even if your right about somthing and shes bein stupid and difficult dont try and make her understand you or that what she's doin is stupid...just give eachother a lil space or take a drive...women cant help bein emotional retards....so basically ive noticed with a women it aint what u say its how u say it.
3.Dont hide anything...even if it aint a big deal.
4.remember 2 stay kind 2 eachother...youll both get sick of eachother it just happens...remember that u like this girl n stayed with her 4 a reason,so treat her like that...cuz they can tell if u sick of em and than its nuthin but crybaby bullshit.
5.Stay tru 2 yrself...she might ask u 2 quit hustlin or start dressin a certain way n when u change 4 sombody yr no longer yourself...its good 2 grow up n c things from other angles but if u turn in2 a puppet than u aint the person the fell in love with n end up feelin hella dumb n just end up goin back 2 yr roots anyways.
LOL, Im not looking forward to it one bit, but its for my son or daughter I want her and I to get used to this as soon as possible so the kid will have a stable enviorment around him or her. Im not putting on a sad face really, I love my girl with all my heart and I never cheated or lied to her its just I never imagined living with her, even when we discussed it I didnt give it that much thought Im just like well its gotta happen eventually. that being said its obvious I dont feel finanically stable to have a 2 people under my care, hell the money thats gonna be comin out my damn check to cover them under my insurance. She has a job but shes about to be going to school full time and only working part time. No more smoking pot for me thats a fact, no more buying 5 fifths of whisky and drinking them all night
Fuccccccck
She already knows how I am and how much I value what we have so she knows Im not going to go squirreling around with her.
She loves all my friends, everyone gets along with her except 3 people I know off the bat so its all good on that. They come over whenever they please right now so thats something that wont change.
#1 rule buddy
Fuccccccck
She already knows how I am and how much I value what we have so she knows Im not going to go squirreling around with her.
She loves all my friends, everyone gets along with her except 3 people I know off the bat so its all good on that. They come over whenever they please right now so thats something that wont change.
#1 rule buddy
you gotta dominate your girl let her know who is boss and whats expected of her early.
dont let her get away with shit for example: not cooking dinner two nights in a row, leaving the house dirty, talking stupid to you in front of your friends/her friends, etc.
women love having a man that tells them what to do even though they might not admit it.
so dont be scared to boss up on her and put her in her place. after that, take her out once a week and clean up like once a month, get along with her family and your gonna have a a sweet life trust me.
when other bitches see you got it like that they start throwin themselves at you so be careful unless you aint trippin about losin your girl over a ripper.
dont let her get away with shit for example: not cooking dinner two nights in a row, leaving the house dirty, talking stupid to you in front of your friends/her friends, etc.
women love having a man that tells them what to do even though they might not admit it.
so dont be scared to boss up on her and put her in her place. after that, take her out once a week and clean up like once a month, get along with her family and your gonna have a a sweet life trust me.
when other bitches see you got it like that they start throwin themselves at you so be careful unless you aint trippin about losin your girl over a ripper.
I couldn't agree more with you on this. Its sad 5 pages of immature bullshit and only maybe 2 or 3 mature posts. This one however reminds me of my wife. You hit in spot on with the helping cleaning and picking up around the house. Also the having your own space in the house. I have my desktop computer and I will play a game online or just browse the net. My wife has her laptop and will be in our back room laying in bed watching tv in there playing a game. (She also does Scrap-booking and has the Cricut expression machine) And just like you said at the end of the night we will spend some time together watching a movie. However my situation is a little different as we have a two year old together so ya I already know what its like to raise a kid together with the woman you love. As Theezy stated before, Communication is key! As long as you have communication you are not going to have any issues. Ya you will argue but it will be minor. And if you have good communication your not going get tired of making love/having sex with your lady. We have been together for over three years and sex is actually better than when we first met. These other immature posts obviously don't know shit about relationships period! As far as freedom, I agree again with going out with my lady, I love going out with my girl with friends and my friends like spending time with my girl. I feel its a maturity thing also. There are times I like to have the "guys night out" just chill with my friends without my wife. The difference with a good relationship and good communication is I don't have to lie about it. All I have to do is let her know say my friend Jeff wants me to come by for a bit and play some ps3 and chill for a bit. Then we just discuss if its cool since we have a kid and all and usually its cool. You guys make it out to be some huge fuckin pussy whipped deal like a relationship is "the end of the road" if you constantly look at relationships like this, I put money on it your never going to be truly happy.
