Is Your Girl a Ho?

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I. Cold

I. Cold

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Man.. what yall dont realize is that this has nothing to do with pride.


I'm a secure man. I dont plan on baggin as many girls as I possibly can. Im not worried about having slept with more girls than my girlfriend has with guys. Some of yall are talkin out your asses, like this is some big macho man shit. I aint. I'm more concerned with being happy. Thats what it all boils down to.

Im trying to make a rational decision here. Some of yall are sayin some childish shit. I never said shit bout "blowin loads in her face".

Fact of the matter is, she's not a ho. I don't know what she was thinking those 9 months.. but I know she had a fucked up childhood that coulda led to that nimph shit.

When I think about it logically, it shouldn't matter. Its not right to judge someone based on what they did in the past.. especially if they are trying to redeem themselves. But its just the thought.. It's hard to make yourself not think about something.. and I know every time I see her, I'm gonna be thinkin "20 dicks, 40 balls" every time.

And I could really care less bout how some other dude fucked her, how long his dick was, how long he fucked her for.. like I said, I dont fuckin care bout that. Maybe someone did fuck her better than I do... I've had better pussy before, that doesn't mean I still don't care about her. This aint got anything to do with pride. Dont get it twisted.
 
gimpypimp

gimpypimp

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Psycho...guys give each other a hard time...it's not a big deal.

But if it's not about pride or insecurity...than why do you even care? Why post it on here for the world to see...obviously something bothers you about it.
 
I. Cold

I. Cold

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Obviously, I'm looking for a little advise, not cutsie-talk with "the guys".

So spare me the bullshit, please.

Not like Im gettin worked up about this.. some of you had really good advise.. but obviously, this is a subject that's gonna get mixed reactions. And I'm trying to hard to base my decision on shit yall be sayin.. which I probably shouldnt. But in situations like this, its always good to get another person's perspective. Maybe I need a female's advise on this one, I dunno...

and yeah, it bothers me.. thats obvious. Its not about pride.. but I cant really tell ya why its bothering me. maybe because before she told me I thought she had been with maybe 4 guys and that number was off by about 10-15.. Shit, I dunno. Im just dwelling too much
 
gimpypimp

gimpypimp

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Well maybe that's it...maybe this whole thing sort of changed your image of her.

If you're happy and you care about her, and vice-versa...then don't let it...don't dwell on it.

She's with you for a reason...let it go.


This reminds me of that movie Chasing Amy.....
 
I. Cold

I. Cold

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BETO916 said:
maybe ask the sista side of the SICCNESS for their opinion, you might get the advice you're lookin' for.
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nah.. Im always seein dudes post there. I figure that forum is for girls to talk about girl shit.. but guys post there more often than girls do.. which I feel is kinda lame.. so I just posted it here
 
2-0-Sixx

2-0-Sixx

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Maybe you should ask her how many girls she's been with.

"Oh, well that changes everything. I've probably been with 500 to 9,000 people total."

Just playin. Like others have said, if you like her/she likes you and you know she'll be loyal, dont worry about it.

Some people can handle it some people cant. I personally don’t ask/don’t want to know. All I care about is the moment. Make love to the present fuck the past.
 
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big D

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The only thing that matters is how you feel about each other. If you had something to get tested for, you'd know by now. Don't trip on numbers. Everyone experiments until they find what they like.
 
LISICKI

LISICKI

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15-20 means shes lying becuase thats a ballpark range. Prolly more like 30-40...

I mean with the time frame you mentioned your girl is no stranger to dick.

LOL

And everyone knows you cant turn a ho into a house wife and thats an actual fact.

I mean what you gonna be maried and get intoa fight and then that shit gonna be running thru your head all day at work.

Bottom line is no one can give anyone else relationship advice becuase their not in that persons shoes and dont know exactly what that person feels in their heart.

So with that being said I'l offer this advice-

If you enjoy being with her and cuddling on the couch and going out to eat and all that shit then do it, cause tommarow aint promised to no one so enjoy life to the fullest every day your given on this planet. But please belive there are many other women out their looking for a good man especially in hot ass Arizona.
 
Gringo Starr

Gringo Starr

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MEXICANCOMMANDO said:
Then stop commenting on a man's relationship.
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Ive been IN relationships..i dont do them NOW...i dont have the energy nor do i really think its any of your business WHY i dont do relationships at this particular moment in my life..but ill tell you this...everyone comes(as far as friends go) to ME for advice about thier relationships..therefore,i DONT need one becuase i appearltny live through everyone elses...its quite annoying at times but ima damn good friend...

That's fine but irrelevant. I never said, or implied, you did.
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Irrelevent?No.I may have worded it wrong.My point is...i dont go through pussy that i know people have gone through(whether it be friends,acquiantnces or just plain known names thoughout the town)

Who's mad? Stop pulling shit out of your ass.
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The way came at me implied that you WERE mad...or maybe just got sand in your cooch...there was no need to say what you did...but you came at me sideways...it was unecassary...but whatever brotha...i don know you...and i really dont CARE to know you...so i guess THATS irrelevent know aint it?

ANYWAYS

Look...Psycho...you ever seen Clerks?And Dantes chick admits to suckin 37 dicks...but he was 37 and thats what matters?Same applies here...she is with YOU NOW!!!So she fucked some guys..and?Is sex a crime?Everyone goes through a "slut" stage...men AND women...and for god sakes its COLLEGE!!!Threesomes,anal sex salad tossing...people,especially WOMEN...experience new shit in a new place...she was sexual locked down til she was 19!!!!What do you expect man???How many women or PEOPLE for that matter...do YOU know....that had thier first sexual experience????I cant HONESTLY tell you...i know 1...and its a guy!!!!!!

Look...do you have feelings for her?Yes?Then work it out bro...if you dwell on it..and see the negative shit....youll never get past it...and evertime you get into a fight with her...guess what YOURE gonna bring up..."well at least i didnt fuck 20 guys!"...and ALL that is gonna do is cause problems that YOU have NO idea will do as far as a ripple effect on your relationship with HER....and others in the FUTURE....

But what do i know...ive only been in love 2X...but according to MEXICANCAMMANDO...i dont qualify to give advice on relationships..and lets be honest...you can get al the advice in the WORLD...but YOu will handle it the way YOU see fit...and all our advice will be a NAY...

Best of luck man....
 
Mr. Nice Guy

Mr. Nice Guy

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Gringo Starr said:
So, do all you dudes expect ALL women to say something like "ive been with 3 guys"...and shes like 30...do the math people...
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Man you are approaching this problem all wrong. Is it a double standard, absuletly. Should I care that it is a double standard, absouletly not. I will fuck with girls and never ask/care how many dudes she been with. But if I was thinking about marrying some girl she better be able to count her partners on one hand and a few fingers.

What I don't understand is why would you not embrace this double standard?
 
CannibalCrow

CannibalCrow

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I've been with a few guys who had been with less people than I'd been with. I've been with two virgins. And it really, really.. really bothered them. I mean it ruined the relationship. I haven't even been with that many guys, but because they were novices they took it personally. They became mean and possesive, and always tried to insinuate that I was going to cheat on them. So it ended. I would have loved them and been loyal to them, but they decided that I couldn't for me.

Don't let a girl's past govern your future with her. As other people have said, the Past is the Past. Leave it that way.
 
Gringo Starr

Gringo Starr

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Mr. Nice Guy said:
Man you are approaching this problem all wrong. Is it a double standard, absuletly. Should I care that it is a double standard, absouletly not. I will fuck with girls and never ask/care how many dudes she been with. But if I was thinking about marrying some girl she better be able to count her partners on one hand and a few fingers.

What I don't understand is why would you not embrace this double standard?
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Why?Cus I think its ridiculous.Im damn near 30 and I could really care less about the shit I believed to be true when i was 18.Reality has to kick at some point.
 
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tyson

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20 would be to much for me. the girl Im fuccin has only had been with 3 other guys and I can tell cuz That shit is super tight and bleeds
 
KALYN

KALYN

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BETO916 said:
maybe ask the sista side of the SICCNESS for their opinion, you might get the advice you're lookin' for.
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Some of y'all are foools for your answers... lol.. for real.

First of all.. never ask a question you dont want the answer to.

Secondly.. why does it matter.. seriously..? why does it matter if your girl is beautiful, intelligent and loves YOU who she's been with in the past..?
We all have a past.. all of us has done some shit we're not proud of.. but the reality is.. unless you pull a female out the Australian outback or she's 14.. youre gonna get a girl thats been with someone before you. Obviously she cares for YOU because youre the one she lays next to at night. Whether she's been with 2 or 12 thats her personal business and shouldnt affect how you FEEL about HER.

How unfair and selfish of you to leave her in tears for asking a question and walking out because you dont like the answer...

All y'all are sayin' "My girl has only been with (insert single digit number here) guys.." .. how do YOU know..? you only know what she's told you.
 
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