Is Your Girl a Ho?

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May 2, 2002
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So... me and my girl were layin in my bed last night.. I decide to ask her (big mistake) how many guys shes slept with in her life..

now, I knew before hand that she didnt start having sex till she was like 19 (her brothers werent havin none of that).. but since she started going to college, she said she's been with 15-20 guys.. I was like WHOOOOAAAAA. Was NOT expecting that.

Man... she's loyal. I know she'd never fuck around on me. And she's a bad bitch to.. Everything about her is pretty much bangin. She's the whole package... BUT 15-20!?? Goddamn. I aint even been with that many girls.

So.. It got pretty awkward after that. She could tell it bothered me. She cried, I left. It sucked. She was apologizing saying she was ashamed of it.. and I believe her.

but I still cant get past the 15-20 thing. I mean, lie to me for christ's sakes. I dont wanna know theres been 20 dicks up in my girl. I been with her 8 months now.

20 fuckin dicks.

FUCK
 
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but seriously.. what yall think? 20 is too much? you think I should get tested? or should I ask her if she's been tested lately.

I dunno... shits stressin me out!
 
May 14, 2002
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Well.. atleast she cared about you enough to tell you the turth.. she could have lied to you instead but I think you would have found out eventually and then all hell would break loose... but still.. 20 is a lot tho, if it was me I think I couldn't stop thinking about it and for me it would change the whole relationship because I would look at her with very different eyes from the moment I would have found out.. which eventually leads me to kick her out. shitty situation tho
 

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AS LONG AS SHE HAS NO DESEASES (SP), AND she is faithfull to you now... none of that other shit matters. i mean it would be different if she was fuckin the homies and then you wifed her... but things you have no control over you cant punish her for.... if you love her or like her then thats whats up..... if shes everything you want then dont fuck it up over a bunch of meaningless sex..... cause thats all it was was meaningless.

my 2 pennys
 
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the past is the past mane. you're probably enjoying some of the stuff those 20 or so dicks taught her.

the only reason I see you gettin' mad, is because she's had more partners than YOU.

take a test if it makes you feel better mane, but good luck finding a broad nowadays around 19 that hasn't had a few ding-a-lings in her grill...especially in college. here's a hint.....check the band or science dorms......those broads are HURT, but they may be low in the penetration department.

LMAO
 
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Fuck that do the math! How old is she? What's the ratio of men compared to the length of time she been fucking? Most women tend to be in relationships and do most of they freaky shit with one person untill they move to the next relationship. If she was just casually fucking.... get tested and think hard! Men and women are eqaul... but when it comes to fucking... women should have more pride in themselves and treat the pussy like a precious diamond to be handled with care. That way niggas apperciate it when they get it. If it's a Cubic Zerc... and and it comes a dime a dozen, no one will appreciate a piece of fake shit. Don't let me discourage you... but the ratio will determine. And yeah for future reference... ask these questions early!
 
Apr 25, 2002
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can't deal with the answer don't ask the question

odds are also in favor of that number being higher than what she told you. they only thing you have going in your favor is that you asked during that post-coital bilss where she feels like she can be open with you and tell the truth, so maybe, MAYBE it was only 15-20

women on average tend to low ball the number to not seem like sluts and guys tend to high ball it to try and seem macho
 
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kah, she just turned 24

iaoish, thats kinda how I feel. shits always gonna be in the back of my mind regardless of how well she treats me. Im thinking about it right NOW and she aint even around. definitely gettin tested though

beto, I feel what you're saying. maybe I am trippin that shes been with more people than me.. but Im thinkin, even if I have slept with 200 girls, this would still bother me.. so I doubt thats it. you're right, it shouldnt bother me. and I know college girls like to sleep around. but shit... I cant help intrusive thoughts.

floss, thats the thing.. the ratio thing. k, she started when she turned 19.. a little less than a year later, she had a boyfriend for like a year and a half and she hasnt had sex since then.. that means all 20 guys came within like a 6-9 month span. and THATS why Im trippin. thats like.. two guys a month. JESUS, I never even thought about it like that. two guys a month. holly fuck.

yeah.. gonna have to do some serious thinkin
 
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[HIDE]women on average tend to low ball the number to not seem like sluts and guys tend to high ball it to try and seem macho[/HIDE]

That's what I was thinkin'...she probably has been with more. Even if not, that's alot of dudes.

[HIDE]How old is she? What's the ratio of men compared to the length of time she been fucking?[/HIDE]

I used to do that too. If she's only 21 now...then that's not good.
 
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It's bothering you 'cause it says a lot about her character and how much she values herself. That's why I find that type of shit out before I commit to someone..

But on the other hand, if you're happy and there aren't any other problems, I'd be careful about ruining something good over something that's happened in the past. The thing is though, unless you two get married, that number is only gonna continue to rise for her..
 
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They are all Hoes (just ask vamps me and him had this talk before)

Our only comfort as men is the degree of hoe she is or to come to grips with all bein tricks
 
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"You can turn a hoe out... but you can't turn her back in!"

For me... if she been with more people than me... problem!
24-19=5 years. In 5 years 15-20 people= 3-4 people a year(unstable).... problem!
You love her... but this in the back of your head... future problems!

Do you or did you plan on making her "Wifey"? And do you think she can be that "degree" of ho? Her swagger, the type of kats she's been with, and what's she has taught you since you been with her will weigh in on your brain. If you can live with it... go for the gusto and make due with the relationship you have established. What's good for me... may not be good for you!
 

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"I love when a broad says 'I can count all the guys I've been with on one hand' and they're counting in like 20's" ----------Dice Clay


Bro I feel yer pain....I had a girl do that to me before....and I LET it fuck things up....Don't get me wrong I'm no saint, but I refuse to buy into the whole "girls are just like guys" bullshit