If your best friend died in a car accident......

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If you found your best homie was fuqin your baby's mom but than he died in a car acci

  • Fuckem he broke the rules , No love lost

    Votes: 17 25.4%
  • forgivness and pain

    Votes: 23 34.3%
  • mixed 50/50

    Votes: 20 29.9%
  • love but lean towards hate a lil

    Votes: 4 6.0%
  • Hate but lean towards love a lil

    Votes: 3 4.5%

  • Total voters
    67
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Some Random Asshole
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bottom line is IF your "homey" knew you really cared about the bitch and didn't care about YOUR feelings...that ain't a homey.

it doesn' tmatter if its your sister, ex, gf, baby momma, mother, whatever.

if your friend doesn't care about your thoughts or how you feel about it they ARE NOT a friend.

BUT...

if you don't giev a shit about the bitch IT DON'T MATTER.

ok, that's the final answer. lol
 

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point blank. it boils down to you telling your true folks that this girl is your girl. you cant bitch up and be all like "thats my girl, but she abitch"

dogs will take that as an invitation
 

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point blank. it boils down to you telling your true folks that this girl is your girl. you cant bitch up and be all like "thats my girl, but she abitch"

dogs will take that as an invitation
man, i got a good friend who always made jokes about fuckin my ex...one day i told him, "look mutha fucka you know how i feel about this shit, so dont fuckin talk to me like that anymore, i don't fuckin think it's funny." he was just tryin to get me to stop thinking/feeling how i did about her...but he didn't realize he was pissing me off and it wasn't working.

so he stopped. gives me shit abotu other stuff now, but that's a friend. someone who RESPECTS your opinion, feelings, thoughts, etc. Otherwise they just some other mutha fucka who you happened to meet.

may be retarded logic on his part, but hell if a homey is doin all that just to try to get you to feel better or be happy, that's real shit.

homies over hoes.
 
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When somebody passes, all the stupid shit yall fought over, really dont matter no more, id never end a friendship over a bitch.
if my woman is going around fuckin other dudes and bein a WHORE , then it's koo if my boy hits it cause she bein a whore around town with everyone else then my boy needs to get some of that, he just better tell me and NOT keep it secret


if he was fuckin my baby's mama and i wasn't with her then whats it to me ? i mean unless he tryin to wife her then things ill be weird
 
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bottom line is IF your "homey" knew you really cared about the bitch and didn't care about YOUR feelings...that ain't a homey.
i fuck with family , my old lady means ALOT to me but if one of the folks fucks her then she a whore, just dont keep no secrets.if she fuckin him then theres a good ass chance she the town donky and everyone been takin a ride on her. if she my ex then fuck it she can fuck who ever she wants. the way i see loved ones come before everything. fuck holdin on to feelings that don't mean shit in the end
 

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i fuck with family , my old lady means ALOT to me but if one of the folks fucks her then she a whore, just dont keep no secrets.if she fuckin him then theres a good ass chance she the town donky and everyone been takin a ride on her. if she my ex then fuck it she can fuck who ever she wants. the way i see loved ones come before everything. fuck holdin on to feelings that don't mean shit in the end
yeah that's real shit. but my folks have enough respect for me that they wouldn't fuck a chick if they knew i still gave a shit.

i ain't some uber pimp, i don't slap bitches and fuck hella hoes. i mean i get mine that ain't an issue but i don't do shit to be cool....

i do shit cause it's what i want to do.

if she's a whore, then yeah she's a whore....but if your homey knew you cared for her still, and still did it, that's not really a homey. that's just some mutha fucka who you know who wants to fuck a chick you still care for. i mean yeah you know the bitch ain't worth your time, but you find that out abotu the dude too, cause ain't NOBODY worth MY time unless they give a fuck about ME....ya know, if you don't care about me, then you ain't my friend.

that's just my opinion.

i do see both sides, cause i've been on both sides personally.

i just hold myself, and the people i fuck with, to a higher MORAL esteem than I do anyone else.
 
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yeah that's real shit. but my folks have enough respect for me that they wouldn't fuck a chick if they knew i still gave a shit.

i ain't some uber pimp, i don't slap bitches and fuck hella hoes. i mean i get mine that ain't an issue but i don't do shit to be cool....

i do shit cause it's what i want to do.

if she's a whore, then yeah she's a whore....but if your homey knew you cared for her still, and still did it, that's not really a homey. that's just some mutha fucka who you know who wants to fuck a chick you still care for. i mean yeah you know the bitch ain't worth your time, but you find that out abotu the dude too, cause ain't NOBODY worth MY time unless they give a fuck about ME....ya know, if you don't care about me, then you ain't my friend.

that's just my opinion.

i do see both sides, cause i've been on both sides personally.

i just hold myself, and the people i fuck with, to a higher MORAL esteem than I do anyone else.
i feel ya to a point but at the end of the day that bitch ain't gonna do shit for you. get over it and move on
 

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Some Random Asshole
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but who says you still care for her?

I mean if it is your BM, you have some sort of level of love or respect, just cause that's your kids mom & you went through a lot together more then likely.

but if you just got some chick preggo, & ended up having a baby, that dont really mean too much & don't hold weight in my opinion & it's open season to whoever.

THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS NEW PUSSY, EVERY GIRL HAS HAD A LOVE, OR AN EX, OR A BABY'S DAD..... Thats just something adult dating consists of.
i was talking about my personal situation there. and my boy knew i still cared...so that's why he stopped.
 

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i feel ya to a point but at the end of the day that bitch ain't gonna do shit for you. get over it and move on
yeah that's real chop. shit don't happen over night tho. and i like people who respect what i think and feel...at least as far as friends.

but, i also show them the same respect. i don't ask anyone to do shit that i wouldn't do for them.
 
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Were these girls that your friends actually had loved? Its one thing to fuck a chick yuour friend dated for a few months...its another to fuck a girl your friends was with for years and years and was deeply hurt by the breakup.

Love has nothing to do with "the game".

Both. Loved and dated.


But like Shea just eloquently stated, the girl is gonna be with another man after she breaks up with you (me) regardless so why wouldn't you want that other dude to be someone you know and like rather than some geek off the street?
 

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Some Random Asshole
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i'd rather it be some sucka then someone i know
for real. if you know em, then you can actually picture it.

that's somethin i dont' want.

btw, i ain't some fuckin childish kid, who thinks fucking 80 chicks is tight...

i'm 25...i know i'm getting older...and actually somewhat give a fuck about finding a decent female to be with...

fuck a BITCH....i'm talkin women...not crazy hoes with psycho tendancies....i mean a mature female who's just about her shit as i am about mine.
 
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Dr. Phil and shit! lol :)

That's real chop tho. Fuck what anyone thinks about "love" versus "the game."

"the game" will leave you ALONE when you're 65 years old and want to be married but you ain't cause you wanted to be "cool" and act like a "pimp" cause you think "the game" is tight....

altho, love can also leave you alone at 65...if you love the bitch and she don't love you and you get a divorce.


See but you say "alone at 65" like it's inherently a bad thing. Some people might say "alone at 65" like it's a good thing.

Not to mention when you say "alone at 65" you are no doubt thinking of some old Chester molester dude sitting in his apartment in his pajamas eating cereal all day.

On the other hand, he could be "alone at 65" live a very fulfilling life with loving friends and family and a new 45 year old girlfriend.

Being alone or not alone doesn't necessarily define what its means to have a good life. Just like you pointed out he could be 65 in a shitty ass relationship.
 

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Some Random Asshole
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See but you say "alone at 65" like it's inherently a bad thing. Some people might say "alone at 65" like it's a good thing.

Not to mention when you say "alone at 65" you are no doubt thinking of some old Chester molester dude sitting in his apartment in his pajamas eating cereal all day.

On the other hand, he could be "alone at 65" live a very fulfilling life with loving friends and family and a new 45 year old girlfriend.

Being alone or not alone doesn't necessarily define what its means to have a good life. Just like you pointed out he could be 65 in a shitty ass relationship.
I'm saying it based on my personal perspective. I don't think I want to be alone at 65. Maybe when I'm 65 I'll wish I was alone.

And I was not thinking of some molestor. I was thinking of a normal human being who has the ability to love other human beings, being completely alone.

It's all relative to what the invidual wants, and is willing to accept.

Personally, I wouldn't like it if ANY of my homies fucked a chick I still cared about.

That's just me. I'm not some gangster or pimp or any of that shit. I'm a fairly normal human being with weird tendancies sometimes and I like to talk shit and smoke pot.

I'm somewhat abrasive on here sometimes. All in all, I am a nice person. And people who REALLY KNOW ME on here, or have talked to me in a normal setting, know how I really am.

I've never asked anyone on here to agree with me about anything.

I do me, like everyone else should do them.

This is just how I personally feel about it. I'd rather that someone I do NOT know fucks my ex. Rather than a homey. That's just how I am.
 
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Both. Loved and dated.


But like Shea just eloquently stated, the girl is gonna be with another man after she breaks up with you (me) regardless so why wouldn't you want that other dude to be someone you know and like rather than some geek off the street?
Ever heard the saying "out of sight, out of mind"? Why would you want the guy fucking the girl you love, around you ALL the time? LOL...cmon now. Its common knowledge that it happens, but thinking about it and actually being AROUND it are two different things.

Time DOES heal everything and its the only way to get over emotional pain. What kind of a dick friend says "fuck it, i dont give a shit if he is hurting....im fuckin". Sorry, but i dont surround myself with non-compassionate, immature, low self-esteem, seflish assholes....just not my kind of crowd.

Maybe its just me, but WHY would you want to date a chick that your friend has been with for years anyways? Again, there are literally BILLIONS of chicks around the world...why not date someone ELSE???

Not to mention, i dont want my buddies sloppy seconds. Either way, fucking with your friend's ex shows a lack of character IMO. It is what it is.
 
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^^ It's all good man. I'm glad you know yourself because there really is no "right" or "wrong" answer to a lot of this.


I just enjoy debating shit on here lol
 
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Ever heard the saying "out of sight, out of mind"? Why would you want the guy fucking the girl you love, around you ALL the time? LOL...cmon now. Its common knowledge that it happens, but thinking about it and actually being AROUND it are two different things.

Time DOES heal everything and its the only way to get over emotional pain. What kind of a dick friend says "fuck it, i dont give a shit if he is hurting....im fuckin". Sorry, but i dont surround myself with non-compassionate, immature, low self-esteem, seflish assholes....just not my kind of crowd.

Maybe its just me, but WHY would you want to date a chick that your friend has been with for years anyways? Again, there are literally BILLIONS of chicks around the world...why not date someone ELSE???

Not to mention, i dont want my buddies sloppy seconds. Either way, fucking with your friend's ex shows a lack of character IMO. It is what it is.
i don't know, i must be in a good mood or it's the weed but this guy has made mad sense with his posts in this topic