See but you say "alone at 65" like it's inherently a bad thing. Some people might say "alone at 65" like it's a good thing.
Not to mention when you say "alone at 65" you are no doubt thinking of some old Chester molester dude sitting in his apartment in his pajamas eating cereal all day.
On the other hand, he could be "alone at 65" live a very fulfilling life with loving friends and family and a new 45 year old girlfriend.
Being alone or not alone doesn't necessarily define what its means to have a good life. Just like you pointed out he could be 65 in a shitty ass relationship.
I'm saying it based on my personal perspective. I don't think I want to be alone at 65. Maybe when I'm 65 I'll wish I was alone.
And I was not thinking of some molestor. I was thinking of a normal human being who has the ability to love other human beings, being completely alone.
It's all relative to what the invidual wants, and is willing to accept.
Personally, I wouldn't like it if ANY of my homies fucked a chick I still cared about.
That's just me. I'm not some gangster or pimp or any of that shit. I'm a fairly normal human being with weird tendancies sometimes and I like to talk shit and smoke pot.
I'm somewhat abrasive on here sometimes. All in all, I am a nice person. And people who REALLY KNOW ME on here, or have talked to me in a normal setting, know how I really am.
I've never asked anyone on here to agree with me about anything.
I do me, like everyone else should do them.
This is just how I personally feel about it. I'd rather that someone I do NOT know fucks my ex. Rather than a homey. That's just how I am.