How Did You Propose. (for married men)

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Jan 30, 2007
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Fuck marriage! all my homies that got married are either unhappy as fuck or are gettin divorced that shit right there puts me off that shit.Most females just wanna get married so they can tie a muthafucka down and have control.
 
May 30, 2006
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Yeah I'm only 25 turning 26 in a couple months. But I was the one who broke up with her. She was happy and I think I disappointed her. She was going through some issues and she called me crying. I was at the work at the time and it sort of caught me off guard. I didn't know how to react or what to say at the time. So in her point of view, she felt I didn't give a shit or cared. But when I asked her about her problems she fuckin questions me. I don't know whats up with that. So I told her, maybe I'm not ready for this relationship thing. And since we broke up I do miss her. Also, for me to be dating her for 8 months says alot. I guess I do like her alot or maybe its love. Who the fuck knows. But I'm definitely not getting married anytime soon. But my goal is before 31.
Ur about 2 be 26? Ur best macking years are yet to come. Why u think men in their 30's & 40's have mid life crises? Usually its from having a family @ a young age & they wind up divorced 15-20 years later & wanna go back to playing the field cuz they never finished in the first place. They arebetter off financially @ that age too so they attract a better class of women as well.

U might miss ur bitch but u actually did the right thing. If ur not ready then its best to break it off & get on with ur life instead of stringing the shit along.

U don't even know if u just liked the bitch or actually loved her from reading ur post so marraige should of been far from something to consider.

Women pressure men to marry them all the time. Don't fall for that shit. They do it cuz there stock continues to drop(kids, more wieght, age etc).

Stay single & kick it until u know inb ur heart & head that ur ready.

These hoes aint going nowhere. Its a bitch turning 18 years old everyday of the week.
 
Feb 15, 2003
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Ur about 2 be 26? Ur best macking years are yet to come. Why u think men in their 30's & 40's have mid life crises? Usually its from having a family @ a young age & they wind up divorced 15-20 years later & wanna go back to playing the field cuz they never finished in the first place. They arebetter off financially @ that age too so they attract a better class of women as well.

U might miss ur bitch but u actually did the right thing. If ur not ready then its best to break it off & get on with ur life instead of stringing the shit along.

U don't even know if u just liked the bitch or actually loved her from reading ur post so marraige should of been far from something to consider.

Women pressure men to marry them all the time. Don't fall for that shit. They do it cuz there stock continues to drop(kids, more wieght, age etc).

Stay single & kick it until u know inb ur heart & head that ur ready.

These hoes aint going nowhere. Its a bitch turning 18 years old everyday of the week.

good advice.... that last line is real talk too...lol.... you gonna miss anyone you are USED to spending time around, but you would know if she was the one you really loved, you wouldnt have to ask yourself twice
 
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Ur about 2 be 26? Ur best macking years are yet to come. Why u think men in their 30's & 40's have mid life crises? Usually its from having a family @ a young age & they wind up divorced 15-20 years later & wanna go back to playing the field cuz they never finished in the first place. They arebetter off financially @ that age too so they attract a better class of women as well.

U might miss ur bitch but u actually did the right thing. If ur not ready then its best to break it off & get on with ur life instead of stringing the shit along.

U don't even know if u just liked the bitch or actually loved her from reading ur post so marraige should of been far from something to consider.

Women pressure men to marry them all the time. Don't fall for that shit. They do it cuz there stock continues to drop(kids, more wieght, age etc).

Stay single & kick it until u know inb ur heart & head that ur ready.

These hoes aint going nowhere. Its a bitch turning 18 years old everyday of the week.
DAMN Thats some REAL SPIT right there.
 

Joey

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I'm divorced(for a year & a half so far) now but when I proposed to my X-wife it was on the morning of Mothers Day.


I'm not gonna get into numbers of how much I spent on her MD gift, ring etc. but I will say if I knew what kind of bitch I was proposing to, the cost of moving out after the break up, headaches behind my kid she would give me & the future child support order that I'm forced 2 pay....... I think I would of saved that Mothers Day money & just plain left the bitch.

Sometimes cheaper & easier is better.

But 8 months is not enough time. I made that mistake & wouldn't reccomend abyone else getting married so soon.

How old are you? If ur not atleast 30 years old. FORGET ABOUT IT!!!!!! I get tired of these cats in there early to mid 20's talking about wifing up a bitch. U still got hella macking years left in you.

I can understand ur 6 year relationship drought. I was single for 4 & a half years before I got with my current chick. I had plenty of fun. I know a relationship seems more secure then playing the field but its hella hard ass work, dedication, patience communcating for it to work & shouldn't be rushed. U got more time then you think homie. I miss the player life. I aint gonna lie. But its better to take yourself out the game then get forced out the game.

Why did u break up with ur girl?

Well said my friend, well said......
 
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Fuck this shit. I;mma get back with her. The way we broke was foolish on my part. I want her to be my girl. I want to be with her. I'm just blind. But I'm not getting married so don't even trip.
 
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Good 4 you. Do what you gotta do. Yesterday was year #5 since ive been with mine, its better to enjoy the ride while you can until its time to take that extra step....