Dude just bending like that about the cat (which he loved a lot) in 2 1/2 weeks when she said she'd give it at least 3 months to adjust to the new place, other cat, dog, and her kid, (he was kept in the laundry room 90% of the time there) and then just giving it up like that bothered me the most though. Like that shit just blew my fucking mind.