definition of being a man or knowing when to walk away....
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I didn't read all the posts either, so if I am late ignore this.
First of all, the woman is still keeping some form of contact with the dude, no matter what she tells you, she is. Women who get screwed like that for a long time look for it, and just when you think she is over it, she will do something to get back in. That's just my experience; I'm not an expert. Think about it for yourself and don't trust her word. You know she is dysfunctional because of the irrational jealousy thing.
As for the guy, take a brick to his head to get him on the ground, then shove your gun in his mouth and make him piss his pants. Take his license from him and tell him he'll never see you coming if he shows up again. If you don't want to do that, then walk away. Or, if you think it's possible, get his number and call him up, set a meeting in a public place and talk to him. He needs to feel like he is the man, and important, so tell him you want his permission to see his ex. But bring a brick and gun with you for easy transition to "plan A". As long as he is on the outside looking in, he can hate you and threaten you easily, but if you meet him there is a chance he will be cool with you.
If you ignore that stuff, at least do yourself a favor and sit down alone, and put all the pros and cons together, to come up with a decision about whether she is worth the effort.
First of all, the woman is still keeping some form of contact with the dude, no matter what she tells you, she is. Women who get screwed like that for a long time look for it, and just when you think she is over it, she will do something to get back in. That's just my experience; I'm not an expert. Think about it for yourself and don't trust her word. You know she is dysfunctional because of the irrational jealousy thing.
As for the guy, take a brick to his head to get him on the ground, then shove your gun in his mouth and make him piss his pants. Take his license from him and tell him he'll never see you coming if he shows up again. If you don't want to do that, then walk away. Or, if you think it's possible, get his number and call him up, set a meeting in a public place and talk to him. He needs to feel like he is the man, and important, so tell him you want his permission to see his ex. But bring a brick and gun with you for easy transition to "plan A". As long as he is on the outside looking in, he can hate you and threaten you easily, but if you meet him there is a chance he will be cool with you.
If you ignore that stuff, at least do yourself a favor and sit down alone, and put all the pros and cons together, to come up with a decision about whether she is worth the effort.
this lady has too many issues/problems that you will:
1. never fix
2. dont wanna fix
3. and will only serve to bring u down mentally and financially in the long run
it sounds like ur feelings are not there for her any more and this is a situation that is easy to deal with cuz of the free rent.
the more time u spend with her, the more she will be attached and depend on you. that isnt fair to her....
from what i am hearing you feel more pity for her than love. pity aint a reason to stay. i'm a say that again, pity is no reason to stay. it leads her on and you really dont wanna b there. that will only serve to make u crazy in time.
the only reason to stay is if u are determined to make this work, and love her. - i aint hearin that from you. and to do that u have to be a strong ass man in your heart and mind. I kinda feel u r wrestling with that notion. It is hard to pack up and admit to urself that u cannot play the role that in your mind you hope u could be. but remember u didnt make the kids and creat her problems, so you are not beholden to take that role. do u follow?
good luck with what ever path u take. as long as u r happy it is the right 1.
1. never fix
2. dont wanna fix
3. and will only serve to bring u down mentally and financially in the long run
it sounds like ur feelings are not there for her any more and this is a situation that is easy to deal with cuz of the free rent.
the more time u spend with her, the more she will be attached and depend on you. that isnt fair to her....
from what i am hearing you feel more pity for her than love. pity aint a reason to stay. i'm a say that again, pity is no reason to stay. it leads her on and you really dont wanna b there. that will only serve to make u crazy in time.
the only reason to stay is if u are determined to make this work, and love her. - i aint hearin that from you. and to do that u have to be a strong ass man in your heart and mind. I kinda feel u r wrestling with that notion. It is hard to pack up and admit to urself that u cannot play the role that in your mind you hope u could be. but remember u didnt make the kids and creat her problems, so you are not beholden to take that role. do u follow?
good luck with what ever path u take. as long as u r happy it is the right 1.
Luni, hit you boy on the pm, if its economically viable and marketable i'll fuck wit it.
oh yeah...add legal to that list.....cause i've had enough non legit biz in my life...
Humboldt....thanks for the words mayne, its real talk....some times you gotta let go to be able to grow...
Tim.....Ima call you and have you in the trunk when i meet up with him,and if anythang happens... I want you to jump out "dead Presidents" style with the two mac-10's and black and white face paint..aiight?
i mean....you the man right....this should be "nothin to a boss"....lol
Bring a couple hacksaws, some hefty bags, some of those yellow rubber dish gloves,a shovel and a mop.....
We can use your bathtub right?...
oh yeah...add legal to that list.....cause i've had enough non legit biz in my life...
Humboldt....thanks for the words mayne, its real talk....some times you gotta let go to be able to grow...
Tim.....Ima call you and have you in the trunk when i meet up with him,and if anythang happens... I want you to jump out "dead Presidents" style with the two mac-10's and black and white face paint..aiight?
i mean....you the man right....this should be "nothin to a boss"....lol
Bring a couple hacksaws, some hefty bags, some of those yellow rubber dish gloves,a shovel and a mop.....
We can use your bathtub right?...
Hell no, all that hair down my drain? He's your stiff, so it's your plumbing headache. But if you want to do it real clean then cut him into small pieces and boil them, then use the garbage disposal. Forget about the Mac-10s, they jam too much. Use a nice reliable brick, those babies never jam.
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don't even trip, i got a bag of Lime in the trunk and some hydrocloric acid to held deal with the evidence in the drain...fuck forensics they aint findin shit..
and i couldnt get the Mac-10....and theyre aint no bricks around, so I got you a butter knife that i kinda sharpened on the sidewalk and a ninja star..but you still got my back right
and i couldnt get the Mac-10....and theyre aint no bricks around, so I got you a butter knife that i kinda sharpened on the sidewalk and a ninja star..but you still got my back right
