definition of being a man or knowing when to walk away....
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damn that sounds good, i just blew and you gave me then munchies already.....damn
How did i get the job, well after i got out of the FBI i wanted to do something easier and I like to travel so i signed up for Service.
They say im gonna be tranfered to Baghdad once the election starts, I hope I dont have to go, but I would get a chance to smoke some Iraqi kill
How did i get the job, well after i got out of the FBI i wanted to do something easier and I like to travel so i signed up for Service.
They say im gonna be tranfered to Baghdad once the election starts, I hope I dont have to go, but I would get a chance to smoke some Iraqi kill
Because your with her and you love her you put yourself in the position to be responsible for all her baggage as long as your with her. . .so as far as the kids aint yours and her ex aint your problem, it is your problem, cuz of your connection to her that shit becomes a part of your life.
as far as the ex, i know from class experience though, and people who've had this happen, if this guy is tryin to be back in their life, hes followin the kids, he gotta history of violence, this doods the type to kidnap a little one or break in the pad at night. . .if this is how hes gunna be you got 3 choices
1. walk away
2. if he breaks in -- smoke him
3. restraining order (wont do shit)
if hes got mental problems, you can beat his ass then hell just come back, put him in jail hell come back, its one of those situations with no good outs...
as far as the ex, i know from class experience though, and people who've had this happen, if this guy is tryin to be back in their life, hes followin the kids, he gotta history of violence, this doods the type to kidnap a little one or break in the pad at night. . .if this is how hes gunna be you got 3 choices
1. walk away
2. if he breaks in -- smoke him
3. restraining order (wont do shit)
if hes got mental problems, you can beat his ass then hell just come back, put him in jail hell come back, its one of those situations with no good outs...
i read only about 3 posts on this so far so i dont know if this has been touched on, but i think basicly you have to anaylze your relationship first of all, are you just getting free rent and bomb pussy or does it go farther than that, true love where you love the woman very much along with the kids, my lady has kids and even tho im not the father i would do what i can to protect them all, now maybe having a lady with kids that have disabilities thats a different story, we can all say that we will treat and love those types of kids the same but in reality depending on what types of disabilities those are (inability to share conversation, or some type of bonding) might not give you the type of connection that you would get out of a kid with no issues.
Now if you decide you are down with this woman and her family , i would say for her to get a restraining order on his ass, get the authorities involved somehow, and use gettin fonky on his ass as last resort
Now if you decide you are down with this woman and her family , i would say for her to get a restraining order on his ass, get the authorities involved somehow, and use gettin fonky on his ass as last resort
yeah mayne....her kids both have severe learning disabilities, so does she I learned later on
She cant even write a damn check herself...cant spell thousand, or even hundred...had dyslexia like a muthafucka...i feel bad sayin all this but shit its the truth.
Me, as hard as it is to believe from all the shit ipost on here, im an educated cat, always lookin to learn new stuff and expand my knowledge...I wanna go to college (even though i been sayn that for 5 years) and learn, get degrees....have my own legit biz...
She, well...would be happy livin on SSI forever, if it wasnt for SSI she would be able to support her kids, she cant even fill out a job application on her own.
All this i didnt know till after i got close to her...obviosuly i didnt do my research carefully...but i was damn near homeless and needed a place and she came in my life with one....
so i made it work.....and yeah i got kinda close to her and we been together for like 2 years or so....but all along i dont feel as though i was really happy...just kinda stuck enjoyin the free rent.
but shit, im makin good money and can make it on my own, no need for her...i dont even like fuckin her really...because shes the last person i want to have kids with...if she cant raise her own, why would i give her another like shes been beggin for.
She believes in some new school "i dont hit my kids" bullshit....which never worked for anyone really...she doesnt believe in discipline for her children....??? why ???
what a fucked up concept, wait till they hit the real world...
She loves the shit outta me, but i dont feel the same way at all.....its really sad when i think about how im gonna crush this girls world...
But do i keep her happy and deal with my situation to avoid the mess of the breakup, or ditch the bitch for a happier life....a little bit duller, but happier nonetheless.
She cant even write a damn check herself...cant spell thousand, or even hundred...had dyslexia like a muthafucka...i feel bad sayin all this but shit its the truth.
Me, as hard as it is to believe from all the shit ipost on here, im an educated cat, always lookin to learn new stuff and expand my knowledge...I wanna go to college (even though i been sayn that for 5 years) and learn, get degrees....have my own legit biz...
She, well...would be happy livin on SSI forever, if it wasnt for SSI she would be able to support her kids, she cant even fill out a job application on her own.
All this i didnt know till after i got close to her...obviosuly i didnt do my research carefully...but i was damn near homeless and needed a place and she came in my life with one....
so i made it work.....and yeah i got kinda close to her and we been together for like 2 years or so....but all along i dont feel as though i was really happy...just kinda stuck enjoyin the free rent.
but shit, im makin good money and can make it on my own, no need for her...i dont even like fuckin her really...because shes the last person i want to have kids with...if she cant raise her own, why would i give her another like shes been beggin for.
She believes in some new school "i dont hit my kids" bullshit....which never worked for anyone really...she doesnt believe in discipline for her children....??? why ???
what a fucked up concept, wait till they hit the real world...
She loves the shit outta me, but i dont feel the same way at all.....its really sad when i think about how im gonna crush this girls world...
But do i keep her happy and deal with my situation to avoid the mess of the breakup, or ditch the bitch for a happier life....a little bit duller, but happier nonetheless.