definition of being a man or knowing when to walk away....

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Jun 27, 2002
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ok..heres a quick rant bout some shit im going through
aiight this broad i been fuckin wit for 2 year or so, she got 2 kids from some other dude, i wasnt trippin when i met her.
apparently dude used to beat her for year and thats why her kids got learning disabilites and shit cause he did it when she was preganant...but thats between them....before my time feel me.

Dude left her like years before i met her, but since he left he never took care of his kids, no $$$ no xmas shit or nothin...she told dude that he shoudl just leave her alone since he dont do what he supposed to, quits every job when she files for child support ,never gives her bread to help pay for they shit or nothin...he basically aint a father or a role in they life ...they better of without him.

Anyways fast fwd to me n her...i aint never tried to be they dad or none of that, im just they freind and thats all...and i told her that when i met her, i aint no fill in father.
so all is said and done and we been together for 2 years..i live wit her and shit.

she always been a jealous bitch thoug, always trippin on a nigga thinkin im cheatin and shit...always stressinme out...but we worked through it, i moved out a few times and she wouldchange...and free rent always works for me.

Anyway, so we move outta Oakland and get a spot in SF....before we moved she aint heard from dude in like years...the last time i seen dude he just rolled past the house muggin and got out the car and threw his hands up..then jumped back in and drove off....then he called the house talkin bout he got a strap and wanna smoke me....
Over what ?

now it today....its been almost a year since we moved, one of the kids got followed home by guess who...dude.
So now dude knows where the broad stay, i stay wit my broad and this just gonna cause problems..dude aint gonna wanna sit down like adults and talk about shit, he gonna wanna chunk em over nothin...dude a 6'5 samoan btw.....

now i aint had my shit wit me in a while, sine we moved i dont needit like i used to livin in the O, but now i got this drama to deal wit...if i fight this nigga its just gonna land one of us in jail and one of us to the hospital..which is which i dont know yet. But i aint tryin to fight some niggas over some shit that dont concern me cause aint no point to it....and i aint tryin to have to smoke some nigga for runnin up in my house, but i will.

Now me and this broad and really as tight as we used to be cause she trip to much, but i been tryin to work shit out cause i do care about her and she loves my ass...but im tryin to walk the thin line of love and hate...but im wonderin if i need to throw in the towel on this relationship....or am I duckin the responsibility and not being a man...
these aint my kids, and it ain my problem...its between them really...but she aint tryin to deal with him cause dude almost killed her a few times...put her in the hospital and all kinds if other shit.

so open house, you tell me.....what should i do. ?
 

Kp

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bounce the fuck out

Fuck all that bein a man shit. Its called being SMART and recognizing yo situation before it gets grimey. If SHE is causen you problems now, and its not worth FIGHTING for, then wtf dogg you answered your own question. That is too much drama and its not your fuckin business. If I was you I'd be out today or this weekend. Tell her to call you when she gets her shit straight. Real talk
 
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A man knows when to walk away, but in this situation the nigga you walk away from follows you, itll never end unless you throw'em and that might not sound very mature, but hey thats life, and some niggas never grow up....
 
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mustynutz said:
it ain my problem...its between them really...
^^No, he made it your problem too. I dont know about you, but if someone threatens to take my life, thats some shit that i will take seriously. you cant just walk away from that shit, cause like the homeboy above me stated, dude aint gonna leave you alone. In the end, you might have to deal with the dude whether you like it or not, you got to protect yourself, and if you really do care about the girl like you said you do, you gotta protect her too
 

28g w/o the bag

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from the looks of it, he's a half crazy/half shade tree muthafucka and no good can possibly come from that combination. and if you and the girl aint that tight then explore your options

avoid the funk as much as possible... if he gets up in your face like he's hankerin' for some drama then what comes next is up to you... you really don't have much of a choice then. uppercut his ass with everything you got.
 

Ry

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  • Ry

    Ry

Is your girl setting shit str8 with dude? I mean dude obviously thinks he can walk in and pick up where he left off,and your in the way of him doing this. Is your lady leading him on in any way? I agree with what homeboy said before, just leave. This aint your problem and you're gonna get beat down or smoked over some bullshit? Also, if dude gets in your face and you gotta throw them thangs, whats next? Is he gonna come at ya with a gun? It just seems like a real fucked up scenario, Id just bounce...
 
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On some real shit sounds like babygirl and diss nigga is faulty. Your not married, you don't really love her, you know for a fact you ain't fixing to play Daddy.....NIGGA JUST BOUNCE! Be smart....put that little hood ego bullshit to the side and dip. The nigga sounds like he gonna be funking with whoeva she dealing with. It can be you, me, hell Usher for the matter...He's gonna trip. When shit hits the fan and muthafuckas is chucking'em and funking and shit....let's say you fuck diss fool up and he's in the hospital for a few....you catch some bullshit case cuz of this do a little time....GUESS WHO RUNS BACK TO THIS NIGGA AFTER ALL THIS SHIT.......I rest my case!!!

Muzty....ask yourself deep inside....IS SHE EVEN WORTH IT??? She always trippin' flashing and shit cuz she's insecure. She already has 2 kids...now if you have 1 with her.....Nigga, that just about makes you instant FAMILY MAN.....Baby's Mom, 1 kid, and 2 step children. Don't set yourself up for the kill.....I have a potna who got srpung on some Puerto Rican broad and he was in a situation similiar to yours I kept telling that nigga don't fuck wit her. 4 years later....he still with her and trust me all I hear is Man, McNeil I should of listened to you along with how unhappy he is!!!
 
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^^ lmmfao....i just strted crackin up at the end of ya postblood cause this broad puerto rican too,...maybe im high but i though that was funny...

ya'll is right blood....i been tellin myself the same thang ever since i posted this...this bitch is just too much drama..a nigga aint run into nothin but bad shit ever since i met her, i think its time to just shake em...

It muthafuckin friday...i got shitfaced last night and expected to wake up hung over then a muthafucka...I FEEEL GOOOD..happy friday ya'll

yeah fuck this bitch and this drama blood, i need to be free......


Now which one of ya'll can i come stay wit for like a month.....i'll smoke you out everyday and i'll drop you $400....get at me


naw but really though
 

Dana Dane

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Shit, for $400 and smoke outs every day, you can crash in my spare room.

....It sounds to me like you ain't fuckin with her anyways, but if you want to, have ol' girl slap a restraining order on her and the kids, and the next time he comes around, have her pop him. Then, move again, change your names, dye the kids hair, and hide forever!!
 
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damn girl...if you didnt stay way out in the V i'd hop on that offer....wait a minute...How far you stay from the Ferry that goes to SF?...i just rememberi got some folks in the V...thats if you were serious.

i told her about the restrainig order thang and left it up to her...you right i really aint fuckin wit her, it been over for a while if you kow what i mean


lol @ the hiding thang...
 
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LiGhTyOvGa said:
@ MUSTYNUTZ
THIS STORY IS ACTUALLY PERTAINING TO YOU THIS TIME ???


yeah man sometimes it cant all be stories bout molesting incest victims while they sleep and other crazy shit...lol
( i still dont know how i came up wit that shit, i was smoking some kill for real)

but yeah homie...this on some ole real life serious shit...You need come smoke wit ya boy