Okay you assholes, let's talk about human needs and personal relationships

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Jan 31, 2008
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damn...hearing about your harem of regulars makes me feel like a chump
You are not a chump. These two are the only ones out of ~10 who stuck around since I started dating after i ended my marriage.
For all i know any day now they will want kids and give me an ultimatum.

There were others before them who lost their shit. One lady I was seeing regularly for a couple months got pissed when I mentioned to her that I was getting a divorce. She thought "even as just a friend, i should have disclosed the fact that I've been married". I said hold up, i dont owe you shit. how dare you make my divorce about you.

I dropped her and she started sending me messages every few weeks talking shit or acting hurt saying i used her blah blah and proof of how i used her is in how quickly i dropped her.

Others will say "ya im not looking to settle either, we can just be chill and go with the flow", when really, they are playing the waiting game. These motherfuckers will hang around acting like the most perfect woman just so "when" i decide to settle again they will be there ready to turn this into some sort of romantic novel.

I tell those women "I will never settle down, and if I one day change my mind and settle down it will not be with anyone I am currently talking to."

nobody got time for these games, man.
 
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Married for 11 years with two kids. I guess you can not just generalize. My wife keeps me from doing things at times, but if she wouldn't, I'd probably be in jail or dead.
Honestly I think like "I fucked your mom" stated, it seems like some people are cut out for it while others, for one reason or another, get bored too easily and feel suffocated.

You are right in that we cannot generalize how other people experience relationships, but this thread is about my experiences in relationships, platonic or love based.
 
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This fag lord is talking about being a positive role model to kids on a Gangster Rap website, that is some straight sucka shit. Is this what having kids does to your minds? Because you guys are acting softer then cotton on this thread. The only role models I had growing up was N.W.A. - Too Short and the Geto Boys.
U hardcore off of rap to tell a kid they have no future? Back then u right we didn't have no future, but now a days these kids have a future!

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U hardcore off of rap to tell a kid they have no future? Back then u right we didn't have no future, but now a days these kids have a future!

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I don't believe the future of today's kids will be that great. The ones that I come across seem like they are being programmed to be smartphone zombies and they have very limited social skills outside of their internet lives. I even asked this typical kid that was glued to his phone how much time he spends on the internet and playing video games and he said all day long, then I asked him if he knew there was a world outside of the Internet and he said no there is not. So even though my youth was not great and I didn't have a solid father figure in my life, I made the best out of it and I don't cry about it. With the way the world is going these days I doubt that these kids futures will be good. The future is only promised day to day now. The world that we see today can be completely changed by tomorrow, so enjoy the rest of your time alive and good luck with your lil zombies.