@NAMO
i'd honestly suggest not joining the military as a fresh married person
literally no bullshit in every unit I was in during my 8 years in the military at least 80% of the marriages dissolved. The only ones that didn't were the old fat ugly wives with their high ranking husbands (even a couple of those I saw dissolve lol)
I doubt the Aussie military is all that much different than ours as far as work hours, training, etc. Lots of time away