I feel you I think about this one a lot. Especially about girls around their early 20's (my age have you), almost like they have a defense mechanism about it. Like they'll shell out hella compassion at first demanding a similar response but after a quick minute if you keep on with it they end up depreciating your worth and value.
Truthfully I think danas idea for that social experiment joke would be right up my alley to try out. Shit its simple enough and I've got quite a few girls I keep in touch with that seem like perfect test subjects. I'd like to say everyone is unique and different and it all has to do with circumstance but i doubt it.
It is the age, and level of maturity.
Most females I talk to, think that's foo foo bullshit and yo'ure just tryina fuck. They'd rather have me just tell them to come over and then fuck.
It's actually weird cause that's been recent.
I'm actually a nice person, go figure. I treat MOST females with respect, and when I care about a female I'm definitely not an "asshole." BUT, I tell it like it is, at all times.
I actually texted a female I'm talkin to, with "smooches" just to see what she said, as I posted she said, "Aww you're cute." Or some bullshit like that.
She's 28, I'm 25.
Like I said, depends on age, and level of maturity...and what kind of bitch she is.
Some females want to be told sweet nothings to make them feel secure. Other females see that as a manipulation tool to make them think you love them when in fact you're out fucking.
I've been in both situations, and I've never been the type to cheat, never cheated actually. My dad cheated on every single female he was with until his current wife which is not my mom. I have no issue with him on that, BUT, that's why I don't do it.
But I've had bitches accuse me of cheating, and when I tell them they're nuts, they act like I'm lying.
Well bitch, don't believe me then. Then when you find out I'm telling the truth and call me you can KICK ROCKS BITCH!
I still got exes from 8-9 years ago fuckin calling me.