Just a sidenote to Cesolito:
My best friend's grandmother was living with them, after she came up from Mexico, and was helping to take care of the kids. Her husband had died about 10-15 years before her, and obviously, while I'm sure she still thought about him and missed him, she had moved on with her life.
About a year a half ago, she told her family that she had been having dreams of her husband, and he was telling her that it was time to come with him, that he had a spot for her with him. She had these dreams often, and during a routine check up, cancer was discovered.
She decided to go back to Mexico, and not long after, she passed away. This all happened within about 3-4 months...
RIP
Also, RIP Lisa Lopes.
(Coincedently, my friend's last name is Lopez.)