Neshani. Put things in its proper perspective. You coming out of somthing written 1,400 years ago, and if you thought it to be true, wouldnt you be enslaved or killed by now by not converting?
Well, luckily the vast majority of Muslims aren't fundamentalists. Just as the majority of Christians don't act in a Christ-like way, the majority of Muslims don't follow Islam to the letter or try to emulate Mohamed in every way.
You're right that the texts are around 1,400 years old. You and I, and (probably) the majority of Muslims can and do "Put things in its proper perspective". Unfortunately the fundamentalists treat it as if it was written yesterday. One example is child marriage.
Mohamed married his third wife, Aisha, when she was 6. According to the Hadith
Sahih Bukhari Volume 7, Book 62, Number 64"
Narrated 'Aisha:
that the Prophet married her when she was six years old and he consummated his marriage when she was nine years old, and then she remained with him for nine years (i.e., till his death).
Now before people get upset let me say that Mohamed was not a pedophile. They did not exist back then. This was a standard practice, and there was nothing strange about it. Today, however, we have a different view on child marriage. We believe that having sex with children is wrong. Yet to this day in some "Islamic countries" the legal age of marriage for girls is 9 years old.
The Iranian Council of Guardians has ruled that girls as young as 9 can be married with parental permission, quashing an attempt by the country's reformist Parliament to raise the minimum age to 15 for girls and 18 for boys.
http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m2872/is_1_27/ai_71563378/
The rational being "If Mohamed did it, it must be good". But most modern people believe something more along the lines of "It was OK back then, but now it's not".
There are many many reformers in Islam (like the ones in Iran trying to raise the legal age of marrage), unfortunately they fight an uphill battle because the religious texts go against many of the things we value in modern society (equal rights for women, freedom of religion, etc.). Some reformers, if they get too far out of line, just end up dead or exiled.
So, like I said, my issue is with Islam and not Muslims. I do have Muslim friends, but they drink beer so fundamentalists may not consider them "true Muslims". I do have Muslim coworkers who are some of the nicest people I work with. I just believe that the core their religion does more harm than good for humanity.
Most Muslims may be able to gloss over the parts about
Dhimmitude and violence against unbelievers, while keeping the good parts. That doesn't change the fact that the core itself has some very nasty things for unbelievers, and fundamentalists are using them as justification for violence against others.