yeah your right, you cant really devoid feeling from the picture, because really in the end, what we feel is what we do. Is it possible to be with someone you dont love? yeah, theres couples that dont love each other but stay together for different benifiting reasons. though they pay for it with turmoil. Is love the motivation for existing? Probably, all other motivation such as money, material things etc. will never give fullfilment and meaning to life.