unfortunately these kids role models are preaching this animalistic behavior. you cant blame them completely.
Whether or not their role models teach them this bullshit, they should know in their own hearts and minds what they are doing...and the repercussions of those actions.
It does start at home, but these dumb fuck kids need to learn how to think and act for themselves. I never saw any of this bitch shit growing up...until High School when cats started flashing straps to get out of any confrontation. When I was a kid though, we went until the other person was done. If he got knocked out, it was over (and there was no kicking or beating while dude was down)...if he said "I'm done", it was over. Then guess what...dudes shook hands and let the bullshit go. It was THAT SIMPLE!
When will these fuckin' kids learn?