my lady is the boss i admit it. She's paid for me to go to rehab twice and has put up with a tremendous amount of bullshit and stuck by me and not just for my kids' sake. I put my foot down when it's necessary but for the most part I let her make the plans (and dinner). As I get more time on the straight and narrow I'll start reclaiming some of my machisimo.
edit: I know for a fact smiley650 (i forget his exact sicc name) got his girl on lock because he talks to me on her cell phone sometimes