Fresh good job on stepping up and handling the situation properly and with respect. That's a real man. Because like Michael Jackson or hate him, the disrespect wasn't needed.
2nd, Sorry to hear about your Grandmother, mine is 89 and has been going through it very seriously the last few weeks and she is the last grandparent I have left so I feel you.
Yesterday the 25th was my birthday and it was kinda sad and messed up that there was so much loss in the world on a day I was trying to celebrate.