I don't want to speak for him, but I think fillyacup is trying to say: Is War solely defined by congress' declaration or is there something intrinsic to these conflicts that make them wars regardless of the formalities?
People on all sides directly involved in Vietnam would probably argue that it was a War. So who decides?
I think people have the freedom to call it whatever they want, and since war is a broad and subjective term, they may be right to some degree of definition.
However, relative to the definition accepted by the US Government, they will be wrong.
In reality same events and results happened whether it is was called a war, conflict, meeting, or party.
If fillyacups point is that whether or not we call it a "war", the outcome was still the same and equally deplorable, then what is the point of arguing that is was in fact a "war" on the other side of the debate and not just that it was horrible whether we call it a war, conflict, meeting or party?
He is arguing for subjectivity, only when the definition fits his subjective definition - which defeats the purpose of arguing subjectivity.
In other words, you can't argue that the definition of war is subjective, and then tell Timm his is wrong lol.
*ps why don't you let fillyacup make his own point rather then make it for him?