That's an unfortunate situation, and totally plausible for anyone who has ever had sex. People treat AIDS and other STD's like something that can never happen to them, when 1/3 of all people are walking around with some shit. All it takes is one person, one slip up, one time and you've made a committment to disease. I think it takes a person with a big heart and a lot of emotional strength to deal with a scenario like this, and if you can do it, be with her and support her and find alternative ways to express your emotions.
Would you be asking this question if she had cancer? I understand the risk for others, but honestly AIDS is just another deadly disease that, if you protect yourself properly, you will most likely not contract. People are cold and ruthless toward people with AIDS, but passionate and loving toward those with cancer, etc. I think in 2003 that ideology should be deaded and people should realize they could be in the other person's shoes very easily.
Good luck.
Would you be asking this question if she had cancer? I understand the risk for others, but honestly AIDS is just another deadly disease that, if you protect yourself properly, you will most likely not contract. People are cold and ruthless toward people with AIDS, but passionate and loving toward those with cancer, etc. I think in 2003 that ideology should be deaded and people should realize they could be in the other person's shoes very easily.
Good luck.
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But, damn this is kinda fucked up. I Don't know what " love" is So I dont think I can give you any real advice.
BUT! if love is anything like people make it seem.. Such as Doing Dumb ass stuff that you would never think of doing untill you met the person.. always wanting to be with the Person Ect..
Then I would say that you have no Choice but you be with her.. If you Don't want to be with her becuase Of her Problem.. then You dont want to be with her. I think love is something that Can't ever be stoped (well besides by Death) If anything can make you stop loving her for even a Second then I dont think you love her. Somone Once told me, " if you love someone you will do anything No matter what it is for that person". I was like... fuck that I won't do Anything out of my way for a bitch. But I have seen people do some dumb ass shit.. and If you catch anything I guess you will have to call it one of them dumbass things you do for love. to me love sounds like something I don't ever want to be in. but People also say.. you can't avoid love no matter what.
So I guess I am just saying Go with it.. fuck it Die a slow and painful death a few years after her (To me that would be better then seeing the person I love watch me die).. I think its better then geting hit by a Plane while you are at a job you dont like or soemthing gay liek that. at least if you die with her aids then you will know that you die for a reason.. (the reason being Love for those of you that dont knwo that I am talking about) I don't know this sounds kinda sappy to me but you asked for the real replys. and this is the truth to me so this is what I give you.
You already posted that you are with her. Good luck with it. I hope you don't catch anything cuz that would be fucked up. Just becareful and you should be ok.
I know my post is nothing that will porb help you.. but maybe soemthing I said might make you think you are with her and with not with the aids .. If I was you I wouldn't even think about her Problem if I could help it. The Main thing that sucks most about this porblem is that you know that she is going to die Earily.. but who is to say that God won't take her life in a bank robbery? or what if she gets into a car crash. WHo is to say that you wont die first? you never know. Now that I think of it and everthing I said.. I would be with her... Life is to short to even dwell on Some bullshit like her problem... Just live life more crazy then you ever would.. lol you could die reading this post...that would be kinda fucked up and funny at the same time....
But really Good luck with her if she is as great as you say then...Don't lose her Not untill god say so atleast. GOOD LUCK homie
But, damn this is kinda fucked up. I Don't know what " love" is So I dont think I can give you any real advice.
BUT! if love is anything like people make it seem.. Such as Doing Dumb ass stuff that you would never think of doing untill you met the person.. always wanting to be with the Person Ect..
Then I would say that you have no Choice but you be with her.. If you Don't want to be with her becuase Of her Problem.. then You dont want to be with her. I think love is something that Can't ever be stoped (well besides by Death) If anything can make you stop loving her for even a Second then I dont think you love her. Somone Once told me, " if you love someone you will do anything No matter what it is for that person". I was like... fuck that I won't do Anything out of my way for a bitch. But I have seen people do some dumb ass shit.. and If you catch anything I guess you will have to call it one of them dumbass things you do for love. to me love sounds like something I don't ever want to be in. but People also say.. you can't avoid love no matter what.
So I guess I am just saying Go with it.. fuck it Die a slow and painful death a few years after her (To me that would be better then seeing the person I love watch me die).. I think its better then geting hit by a Plane while you are at a job you dont like or soemthing gay liek that. at least if you die with her aids then you will know that you die for a reason.. (the reason being Love for those of you that dont knwo that I am talking about) I don't know this sounds kinda sappy to me but you asked for the real replys. and this is the truth to me so this is what I give you.
You already posted that you are with her. Good luck with it. I hope you don't catch anything cuz that would be fucked up. Just becareful and you should be ok.
I know my post is nothing that will porb help you.. but maybe soemthing I said might make you think you are with her and with not with the aids .. If I was you I wouldn't even think about her Problem if I could help it. The Main thing that sucks most about this porblem is that you know that she is going to die Earily.. but who is to say that God won't take her life in a bank robbery? or what if she gets into a car crash. WHo is to say that you wont die first? you never know. Now that I think of it and everthing I said.. I would be with her... Life is to short to even dwell on Some bullshit like her problem... Just live life more crazy then you ever would.. lol you could die reading this post...that would be kinda fucked up and funny at the same time....
But really Good luck with her if she is as great as you say then...Don't lose her Not untill god say so atleast. GOOD LUCK homie
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Re: Re: Re: Someone said id get more responses posting this here
I am not a virgin, never had sex with my hand (don't know how's that possible. Hmmm... maybe that "make a pussy" 2nd grade trick were you combine your hands with someone else to make a pussy has something to do with it. But I don't see how someone would fuck that)
I've only had sex with responsible females, and not whores....
Well one of them was sleezy but I at least had protected sex and she happenned to be a responsible freak.
(I wouldn't sleep with her ass anymore, I was zoned out during that time, scizophrenia etc....)
Who am I to judge her? (first of all, I'm judging her past and not her present. I believe anyone can change to a better person)
I am someone who has friends with aids.
I am simply trying to say that aids isn't like a common cold.
You really have to put yourself out there in order to catch it.
You go around having sex irresponsibly and it'll bite you in the ass.
Fact....
PS.... Why are you gettin offended anyways?
Do you have something in common with her? Do you relate to her in any way? What's attachment?
There has to be a connection since you happen to be deffending her....
I am not a virgin, never had sex with my hand (don't know how's that possible. Hmmm... maybe that "make a pussy" 2nd grade trick were you combine your hands with someone else to make a pussy has something to do with it. But I don't see how someone would fuck that)
I've only had sex with responsible females, and not whores....
Well one of them was sleezy but I at least had protected sex and she happenned to be a responsible freak.
(I wouldn't sleep with her ass anymore, I was zoned out during that time, scizophrenia etc....)
Who am I to judge her? (first of all, I'm judging her past and not her present. I believe anyone can change to a better person)
I am someone who has friends with aids.
I am simply trying to say that aids isn't like a common cold.
You really have to put yourself out there in order to catch it.
You go around having sex irresponsibly and it'll bite you in the ass.
Fact....
PS.... Why are you gettin offended anyways?
Do you have something in common with her? Do you relate to her in any way? What's attachment?
There has to be a connection since you happen to be deffending her....
I don't have to have HIV in order to empathize with what it must be like. Just because you were a schizo when you had sex with a so-called "sleezy broad" makes you no better or no worse than the girl in question was when she had unprotected sex. Or let's stop assuming that she had unprotected sex.....maybe she had this "protected, responsible" sex you speak of. Newsflash!!!! Condoms break. So calling her "no angel" and trying to villify her because she contracted HIV when you in fact have put yourself at risk for the same disease before is pure hypocracy.
It takes one person, one time and that's it...."responsible" or not, every time you have sex you are putting yourself at risk for HIV so you might want to get off your high horse.
Lastly, to think that these "responsible" girls you have slept with are always telling you the whole story is ignorance.
It takes one person, one time and that's it...."responsible" or not, every time you have sex you are putting yourself at risk for HIV so you might want to get off your high horse.
Lastly, to think that these "responsible" girls you have slept with are always telling you the whole story is ignorance.
Lol Haveing sex is always Puting you are risk of anything...Thats why Its a sin to have sex with just any girl you see ... I see it as we are all going to hell..
HAHA we are all going to hell thats so fucked up but its ture... just becuase the mieda makes it seem so great.. that dose not change the bible .. and I know I am going to hell but you seem to be Jugeding someone elses mastakes... thats Fucked up if you think about it.. What if ever masatke you ever made You had to live with... Damn her 1 Problem is more fucked up then all the Problems I have in my life.. when I think of people dieing I just think damn I am glad I am not them and I start to think maybe God is blessing me and I should Do what he says and only have sex with the person I am going to marry.. But Then I take a Swig of Henny and I forget all about that.. damn We are all going to hell this is so fucked oh well ( takes a swig of henny) I am going to do as much as I can now befor God takes away his Blessings
Just think about it NO ONE IS BETTER THEN HER.. becuase we have all had Sex with someone we are not married to.. so we are all fucked in the end.... HAHA I fuck GIrls and god is going to Send me to hell How fucked up is that? ... I can't blame him tho becuase I knew that I shouldn't be doing what I am doing but I do... and I know all of you know this also... so we are all going ot hell I will see you there ( takes a Swig of heny) Oh well fuck it .. all I can say is.. Just live till you cant live no more.. we are all fucked in the end anyway.. damn I think I said the same thing over ... oh well you get my point.
I think am Drunk..
HAHA we are all going to hell thats so fucked up but its ture... just becuase the mieda makes it seem so great.. that dose not change the bible .. and I know I am going to hell but you seem to be Jugeding someone elses mastakes... thats Fucked up if you think about it.. What if ever masatke you ever made You had to live with... Damn her 1 Problem is more fucked up then all the Problems I have in my life.. when I think of people dieing I just think damn I am glad I am not them and I start to think maybe God is blessing me and I should Do what he says and only have sex with the person I am going to marry.. But Then I take a Swig of Henny and I forget all about that.. damn We are all going to hell this is so fucked oh well ( takes a swig of henny) I am going to do as much as I can now befor God takes away his Blessings
Just think about it NO ONE IS BETTER THEN HER.. becuase we have all had Sex with someone we are not married to.. so we are all fucked in the end.... HAHA I fuck GIrls and god is going to Send me to hell How fucked up is that? ... I can't blame him tho becuase I knew that I shouldn't be doing what I am doing but I do... and I know all of you know this also... so we are all going ot hell I will see you there ( takes a Swig of heny) Oh well fuck it .. all I can say is.. Just live till you cant live no more.. we are all fucked in the end anyway.. damn I think I said the same thing over ... oh well you get my point.
I think am Drunk..
So quick to shoot from the hip huh?
Did you even read what I said about her following my coments about her?
Anyways, speaking of ignorance, condoms do not break under normal use!
How many people do you know that have aids????
I know at least 3, a high majority of people with aids did not catch it after one bad accident. These people constantly put themselves at risk!
When it comes down to it, people should not go around fucking what ever walks.
You will never agree that the majority of folks with aids are whores, but that's ok.....
I'm just tryin to tell this cat that there's more fish in the sea.
This girl can find herself another dude, with aids....
Did you even read what I said about her following my coments about her?
Anyways, speaking of ignorance, condoms do not break under normal use!
How many people do you know that have aids????
I know at least 3, a high majority of people with aids did not catch it after one bad accident. These people constantly put themselves at risk!
When it comes down to it, people should not go around fucking what ever walks.
You will never agree that the majority of folks with aids are whores, but that's ok.....
I'm just tryin to tell this cat that there's more fish in the sea.
This girl can find herself another dude, with aids....