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All Out HOGG

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Pretend that one day you met this girl...U didn't know anything about her except that she is your homegirls friend...& they come over to kick it with u & one of your friends...You began talking to her & you & her realy hit things off good...I mean real good...So from that point on you & the girl stay in real close contact...Talking almost every day at some point or another & then about 3 weeks later...she sets up a day that for most of it is just u & her alone, out together & at her place...The day goes completely perfect & u actualy know that inside that you realy like this girl...She's 18, looks gorgouse, can cook coconut creme pie, is open minded to new & diffrent things, & your just able to talk 2 her & enjoy it...Then the next morning...She comes up to you teary eyed...& when you ask her whats wrong...she explains how much she likes you aswell & is scared to tell u sumthing thinking you will hate her...then she finally does...












































'I have H.I.V."


Okay maybe im stupid for even considering asking this...But if you found that perfect person...& they had aids what would u do...U can't ever have sex with them...& u know that they wont live forever...But noone ever does...U know ina cupple of years your entire world will clash...But it is it worth it for the love that would be there for the time it can be??? Or is it better to just X her from your life completely?

Please only give serious answers...
 
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MOSA

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I am the type of person that would go with it. Only because people live there hole lives ( if they want to admit it or not) trying to find that one person that the can click with ,smile ,and just egsist with .If you KNOW FOR SURE(keyword) that she is one who fits that description then I'd go for it, cause atleast you'd have it .If only for a while.


I would think about it though...cause it is a sticky situation. Alot of guilt can come fromthis say she dies and you regret the day that you did this and that. You didn't call her or you know things like that.

So I'd give it some thought....but whatever you choose . I hope it works for the best!!!!
 
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damn yo, life just sucks dont it. im in a situation kinda like urs, but the girl does not have H.I.V. shes engaged to this other guy. i dont knwo the guy, but still, i dont want to ruin his shot ya know? just do what u think is right mayn. it is hard to find that special ONE, so u gotta think hard
 
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m.w.merlino

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whoa...this is some shit homie...id go with it cuz look, wat r u gunna do just be like oh u got HIV i dont wanna be around you...if you click so well what does it matter? and with all the medicine out these days ppl live up to 12 years with it, she might even be alive when a possible cure is found, just go with your heart mayne thats the only way to figure this shit out.
 
28g w/o the bag

28g w/o the bag

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i'm a leave that shit alone.....

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besides, u can't do shit with her.... u can't have a bright future, how u supposed to have kids?? i mean besides u catching HIV yourself as well as your kids being born with it with the possibility of them despising the shit out of u for it years later......
 
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Try to put yourself in her position first. Let's say she fell in love with somebody or one night just made a mistake. She goes to the hospital and the doctor says, "I'm sorry maam, but you tested positive for HIV." ...damn. Well it's pretty obvious that the person she caught it from didn't give a shit about her because they ain't nowhere to be found. So... she got AIDS and she got left to fend for herself. Pretty shitty situation to find yourself caught up in. Now she has no hope for ever finding somebody to be intimate with because of her condition and she knows that she might be in for a slow drawn out emmotional hell kinda death and she ain't got to much time left here on earth to find comfort or any real love. So she goes about her life keepin this to herself so she ain't outcasted and people don't feel no different talkin to her. Basically tryin to hold on to as much normalcy as she can.

Then one day she meets this guy. They hit it off real good and she starts thinkin to herself damn "if only things were different" we could of been real happy together. I can lie to him if I want to but sooner or later he'll find out anyway. Since I actually care enough about him to not hurt his feelings I'll sacrifice my own with the hopes that somehow things will work out.

If she was a hateful person she could of selfishly withheld this information, said fuck the world and I only care about myself so I'm gonna be happy at the cost of anybody.

...I think it's pretty obvious she ain't like that.

So I guess it comes down to how much you really care about this person, and are you strong enough to handle what lifes gonna throw your way when you make this decision.

Everything happens for a reason dog, and real love has nothin at all to due with having sex. That's a lesson she could tell you from experience.

Look at it this way, nobody lives forever, her time is just alot shorter then yours as far as you both can tell. IF things went all bad it ain't like you ain't never gonna see her again it's just a matter of time before yall both meet up in Heaven anyway.

My advice. Don't leave her to fend for herself like everybody else did. Even if you guys just turned out to be really good friends it's a good experience in the long run, cuz it's one more good friend you've had in your life. And if you fell in love... well there's only one person your ever really gonna fall in true love with on this entire planet, and at least you'll know that your one of the people who's found it.

Life's short homey, and in the end all anybody is really left with are the friends they've met along the way, and the person they fell in love with. Nothin else matters.

^That's what I'd tell dude if he asked me.

"When you can't find a single good in the world, then you have to be the good in this world." -Love
 
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All Out HOGG

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I dunno where me & her are headed...But things are still the same between, they actualy seem 2 get better...I realy like this girl...I guess its just not setting in my head that shes sick...I dunno...But you only live once so fuck it...
 
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I have heard that the chance of a child getting aids from the mother is not very big, but it still can happen. If you really are feeling her, stay with it. But make sure this is the one before you put yourself at risk. If it is certain she is the one then you may have to sacrifice a few years of your life. Like you said, we all die sometime. You're going to find someone you connect with and... connect. In this life, death is inevitable. Follow your nature...
 
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I would at least, befriend her indefinately. We are in no position to give you a yes or no answer, because not even your words can tell us how you feel about her. If you feel for her what I feel for my girlfriend, I would say go for it.

Read what Ender posted again, and then again.
 
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All Out HOGG said:
Pretend that one day you met this girl...U didn't know anything about her except that she is your homegirls friend...& they come over to kick it with u & one of your friends...You began talking to her & you & her realy hit things off good...I mean real good...So from that point on you & the girl stay in real close contact...Talking almost every day at some point or another & then about 3 weeks later...she sets up a day that for most of it is just u & her alone, out together & at her place...The day goes completely perfect & u actualy know that inside that you realy like this girl...She's 18, looks gorgouse, can cook coconut creme pie, is open minded to new & diffrent things, & your just able to talk 2 her & enjoy it...Then the next morning...She comes up to you teary eyed...& when you ask her whats wrong...she explains how much she likes you aswell & is scared to tell u sumthing thinking you will hate her...then she finally does...


'I have H.I.V."


Okay maybe im stupid for even considering asking this...But if you found that perfect person...& they had aids what would u do...U can't ever have sex with them...& u know that they wont live forever...But noone ever does...U know ina cupple of years your entire world will clash...But it is it worth it for the love that would be there for the time it can be??? Or is it better to just X her from your life completely?

Please only give serious answers...
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There's more fish in the sea.
Trust me, if she has aids then she's no angel by any means.
She might be a changed person now but that's because she has no choice. I understand how you feel bad for her but it isn't uncommon for people with aids to find partners with in the aids victims. Well scratch that, no person with aids is a victim unless they were born that way. But any way, there's a lot of aids infected people who stick with each other so it isn't like she's hopeless....

Another thing, just because she has aids, it doesn't mean she won't have a long life. People with aids can live healthier lives than normal people.
The ball's in your hands man. It's totally up to you, I can understand if you choose to stay with her.
I don't see anything wrong with that since you're not the only one in this possition.
I'm just here tryin to tell you that there's pleanty of fish in the sea.... Don't make the same mistake I made and stick with the first person you "think" is the right one for you....
 
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All Out HOGG

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The first person i thought was the right one, was the right one...Thats my x-fiance...but life happened & i can't change my fuck ups...

Im just livin my life for what its worth...we all die someday
 
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Damn this is serious, I really cant tell you what I would do, probably be her friend and comfort her and just be with her. If it means she will rest happy then thats cool because life is about helping others.

Epidemic
 
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