So I just found out...

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Dec 4, 2006
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That the guy who fathered me passed away from cancer two years ago...

This is a man who I only seen at least 4-5 times in my whole entire life..

How should I feel about it tho? When my grandma told me today, I was a little shocked about it. Got a little sad as well..

But should I shed a tear or even say RIP?..this is the same guy who dissed me twice when I walked up to him to say hi, while he was with his other wife.....

fuck it tho....I hope whatever he's at...he's happy...

and I sure as hell would never diss or leave my daughters side and do what he did to me.....

I hope you rott in hell Luis!!! a big fuck you to you!
 
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Yeah Gas...that's what my sister said..fuck him...

I had a feeling he had passed away when I received a letter from my aunt (his sister)..asking me if I could help her out a bit...but I never replied to the letter because I kind of knew what was up....

I think if I do drink tonight, I'm gonna put a thought on it and it might hit me...thank god there's cocaine...I'll erase the thought...
 

Legman

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real talk i know its your "father"

but you shouldnt be depressed over it

just be thankful he fathered you, and love yo momma twice as much like gas said

regardless what he did, R.I.P. to him and ill make sure to pray for your family cuz no matter what, death is hard

but like everyone else is sayin, drink sumthing, smoke a blunt and shit, hit a line, whatever to get your mind right

stay up brehgoon
 

Gas One

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and its not a situation you need to use over or anything...im not against you doing coke or nothin im just sayin, first things first.

ive said this before but ill say it again, youve made it to an adult, so theyve done a great job on raising you, without his help. dont get caught up so much on you being born, i mean at this point thats already happened decades ago and billions of people have been born for whatever reason, ever since you have

i dunno why he died but personally i believe in karma and i wouldnt curse the man who took part in making you, but ill say alot of things you do in life play a part in how youll check in or check out, if you feel me... you just worry about yourself any dont make the mistakes he made that you can tell, with your own intuition...arent good decisions to make. i know thats how i am. the things i went through made me stronger breh, i might be part of my dad but he aint i and i aint him slim with the tilted brim. you good..just learn from his mistakes and thats what he was there for apparently
 
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I've always said that you can't put too much stock in people. People are bound to disappoint you one way or another, some more than others obviously. The absence of a father can be the most impactful thing in anyone's life but you're still alive and kickin. Enjoy life and live with purpose and exceed the expectations you've even set for yourself. RIP to your father.
 
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That the guy who fathered me passed away from cancer two years ago...

This is a man who I only seen at least 4-5 times in my whole entire life..

How should I feel about it tho? When my grandma told me today, I was a little shocked about it. Got a little sad as well..

But should I shed a tear or even say RIP?..this is the same guy who dissed me twice when I walked up to him to say hi, while he was with his other wife.....

fuck it tho....I hope whatever he's at...he's happy...

and I sure as hell would never diss or leave my daughters side and do what he did to me.....

I hope you rott in hell Luis!!! a big fuck you to you!
thats that old world latino culture though.have kids with all kinds of women and not give a fuck about the children...i'm on your same level dude.we are better men than our fathers cuase we take care of our own and would give our lifes for them.

as far as my dad..i think he's either in georgia or in mexico..don't know ,don't care..respect is earned..it aint mandatory.
 
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i would at least say a RIP he did help bring u into this world. U wouldnt be here if it wasnt for him so id at least say RIP then let it be after that.
 

P.E.

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we cant forget that latino women are hella difficult to live and get along with,..im just saying,..theres no excuse to not come around,but i mean maybe ur moms and him had something between them or maybe ur moms made ur pops feel a certain way to where he felt he couldnt come around!...chicks are hella stubborn and sumtimes dont give a shit and act like theyre so superior and can do it all on their own and tell there babys dad to get the hell on and not to come around any more!...maybe something like that happened and maybe thats why he felt like he had to shine u on when he saw you becasue he never really got that honest chance to be there for u as a kid!..,.maybe not but like i said theres two sides to every story,..for all u know u could only be hearing wut ur moms side is telling u about him,..maybe when u were a baby,they moved away and he could never find u guys,...like i said theres many possibilites or reasons for things to turn out like they did,..but either way sorry to hear about ur loss homeboy,..just stay positive and keep ur head up,...and naw man dont do the coka colas mang,stay strong!
 
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Noone should grow up without a father that's just fucked, everyone needs guidance but at least you have a sister. I'm an only child and that's kinda wack.