MAN,
I HAD A gENERAL RESPONSE FOR ALL YAW BUT THIS LIBRARY COMP. CUT ME OFF. LET ME SAY THAT I AIN'T AgAINST TALKIN' BOUT SEX TO EDUCATE, BUT TO TALK ABOUT IT TO ENCOURAgE THE ACT TO CHILDREN. OUR SOCIETY IS HIPOCRITICAL ON THIS AND THAT'S WHY SHIT IS THE WAY IT IS. LET ME gO TO ANSWER YAW INDIVIDUALLY....
SYDAL,
YOU STRESSED, "HAHAHA, yea, the French are some horny fucks, but I believe they have yet to see a big outbreak of AIDS over there, along with dumb kids having more kids."
IF YOU LIVED IN FRANCE, YOU WOULD KNOW MORE. BUT FRANCE IS A LITTLE ASS COUNTRY, TO TRY TO COMPARE IT. I CAN'T SPEAK UP ON IT.
THEN YOU STRESSED, "It's not just about France though, it's about Europe in general, they're more open about sexuality and everything else that we're not open about here."
IN WHAT WAYS ARE THEY OPEN? I BELIEVE THEY OVERCROWDED, AND LIVIN' THERE, YOU WOULD BE MORE AWARE OF TRYIN' TO MAKE BABIES IN A CONJESTED ENVIRONMENT. BUT THAT'S JUST MY THOUgHTS.
THEN YOU STRESSED, "Drinking is a perfect example, they don't have kids over there dying in drunk driving accidents like we do here, because they learn how to drink and handle alcohol at a young age."
HOW'S THAT? I DIDN'T THINK THE YOUTH EVEN HAD RIDES LIKE THEY DO OUT HERE. PLUS THEY SPEED LIMITS AND TRAFFIC LAWS ARE DIFFERENT.
THEN YOU STRESSED, "The government wants to teach people in South Africa about condoms because AIDS is HUGE over there, but they don't want the children here knowing such things. I guess it's going to take a major outbreak for them to want to do something about it, when it's too late."
WHAT CAN THE gOVERNMENT DO? CENSOR FREEDOM OF SPEECH? CENSOR HOLLYWOOD? MAKE IT ILLEgAL TO HAVE SEX?
THEN YOU STRESSED, "But yes, we do need to teach kids about this shit without encouraging activity at such a young age, I agree with that completely. I'm just for educating, that's the key."
SO HWO CAN THAT BE ACCOMPLISHED?
L-MAC-A-DOCIOUS,
YOU STRESSED, "@ EDJ...when I say an open dialogue, I mean we need to have a continuing conversation...we can't get all puritan on the subject, and make sex taboo for children to talk about..."
I DIDN'T SAY THAT. BUT PARENTS SHOULD KNOW WHAT'S gOIN' ON IN THEY CHILDRENS LIFE AND ACT ACCORDINgLY. YOU CAN'T JUST gIVE YOUR CHILD A CONDOM AND THINK THAT'S gONNA SOLVE THE SHIT. SEX DONE BECAME SO WATERED DOWN, THAT IT'S LIKE DRINKIN' WATER IN THIS SOCIETY. AND IT AFFECTS US ALL. THE SHIT TRICCLES DOWN TO THE CHILDREN. SO YEAH, TALK ABOUT IT, BUT DON'T ENCOURAgE IT. IF N-E-THANg, IT SHOULD BE DISCOURAgED. NOT LIKE IT'S SOMETHIN' NASTY OR TABOO, BUT SOMETHIN' THAT COMES WITH REPERCUSSIONS. IT'S SOMETHIN' THAT SHOULD BE USED HOW IT WAS INTENDED(IN MARRIAgE). BUT THAT IDEA, I gUESS IS OLD-FASHION IN THIS LUSTFUL MODERN SOCIETY.
THEN YOU STRESSED, "we should encourage children to ask questions, not be afraid to talk about it."
THAT STATEMENT IS BORDERLINE. WE SHOULDN'T ENCOURAgE CHILDREN TO gET THEY OWN IDEAS. WE SHOULD DISCUSS THE TOPIC, THEN LET THEM ASK WHAT THEY DON'T UNDA-STAND.
J-FUNK,
YOU STRESSED, "these lustful thoughts are a result of biological and psychological needs."
MORE LIKE "WANTS". YOU AIN'T gONNA DIE IF YOU DON'T gET IT.
THEN YOU STRESSED, "Our body is made for mainly one biological function, and that is to reproduce with the most suitable mates, especially as an adolescent male, and not with a single mate either."
AS A PLAYA, I AgREE WITH YOU. BUT AS A MAN THAT CAN HAVE CHILDREN(ESPECIALLY A FEMALE CHILD), I SAY LET THE CHILDREN gROW AND BE WISE AND NOT SUCCUMB TO DESIRES OF THE FLESH.
THEN YOU STRESSED, "whether you think it is wrong or not, it is made to be a great part of every human's psychological and biological make-up."
I UNDA-STAND. BUT HOW ABOUT MORAL STANDARDS, EMOTIONS TIED TO THE ACT, AND REPERCUSSIONS OF SUCH ACTS?
THEN YOU STRESSED, "Anyways I beg to differ on ur point about how talking about it only leads to worse things."
I DIDN'T SAY THAT. I SAID BEIN' OPEN ABOUT IT AND JUST TALKIN' ABOUT IT CAN LEAD TO LUSTFUL THOUgHTS, WHICH CAN THEN LEAD TO THE ACT, WHICH LEADS TO POSSIBLE REPERCUSSIONS. I NEVA SAID IT LEAD TO "WORSE THANgS".
THEN YOU STRESSED, "Accounts of rape and such happen more frequently in a society in which shuns such "lustful" acts than in a society which is open about it...."
HOW'S THAT? WHERE'S YOUR INFO FROM? CAN YOU PROVIDE ME WITH DATA OR FACTS TO SUPPORT YOUR CLAIMS(OTHA THAN UTAH)?
THEN YOU STRESSED, "Utah for example, one of the most conservative, christian influenced states, a state which shuns these "lustful" acts has a very high rape per capita rate, one the highest in the U.S.."
BUT I BET YOU UTAH SEE'S THE SAME MOVIES, VIDEOS, AND HAS ACCESS TO THE SAME PORN SITES EVERY OTHA STATE DOES. AND WITH THAT SAID, THE LUSTFUL THOUgHTS ARE THERE AND THE CONSERVATISM IN THEIR ENVIRONMENT JUST PUSHES FOO'S TO FULFILL THEM LUSTFUL THOUgHTS IN SECRECY, THUS HAVIN' MORE CASES OF RAPE PER CAPITA. SO HAVIN' AN OPEN DIALOgUE AIN'T gONNA DECREASE THEY RAPE RATE CAUSE THE LUSTFUL THOUgHTS ARE ALREADY THERE.