RESPECT??

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Dec 17, 2004
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LMAO! I said "If my son can tell me the definition of bitch or jackass, he can use the words as long as he uses them in the proper context".

He told me I should teach my son critical thinking, studying, etc. etc. I told him I'm not going to TEACH my son to cuss, but if he can use words correctly I'm not going to stop him...then I told him not to tell me how to raise my kid.

I know it sounds kind of fucked up, but my son can either learn words like "bitch" in the street and use them in a disrespectful manner, or he can learn the true definitions and use them if and when it's necessary.
i completely agree with you. but out of curiosity what do you mean by if he can tell yuo the definition and use it in the right context?

so like if he sees a female dog and says "look at that bitch"....if thats what you mean...you of course know the only context words like bitch are used are in a negative one. nobody ever uses bitch for its true meaning

what about "fuck"?

like i said, i agree with not being all anal about your son using curse words, but im trying to understand what you mean by the true definitions part
 
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I've got an older cousin, 31 yrs old, who already be trying to use that excuse. fuck all that noise. it's stronger in other cultures
 
Apr 25, 2002
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i completely agree with you. but out of curiosity what do you mean by if he can tell yuo the definition and use it in the right context?

so like if he sees a female dog and says "look at that bitch"....if thats what you mean...you of course know the only context words like bitch are used are in a negative one. nobody ever uses bitch for its true meaning

what about "fuck"?

like i said, i agree with not being all anal about your son using curse words, but im trying to understand what you mean by the true definitions part
Exactly. Nobody really uses the true definition, but I don't want my son running around calling women bitches...ya feel me? I mean, of course he will if that's what he picks up, but in my presence it won't be ok.

The word FUCK means to strike...or is derived from words that mean to strike. There's no way a kid can use that in this society without there being some sort of backlash...just like the "N" word. Both of those words have non-derogatory definitions, but there's just too much behind the words for them to be used...even if they are used in the proper form.

In any case, my initial statement was kind of in a joking manner. A kid spewing words like this isn't cute to most people, but at the same time I want little dude to know what shit means. The English language has been murdered and I want my kid to be able to rise above the dumb shit that's out there.
 
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I respect everyone but if someone disrespects me they get that disrespect back! My in-laws learned early not to disrespect me cuzz i dont hold my toung. You teach people how to treat you. I tought them not to fuck wit me. I think every family has at least one person in it that thinks its ok to talk shit to everyone, and think they better then the rest.... those are the ones you gotta shut up early, like right when you meet them. if you try to play respectful, then they think they can always talk shit to you. As much as they can talk shit, so can I.
 

BASEDVATO

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May 8, 2002
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i have in laws that hate on me... but they just bitter old ladys mad at life in the last stage of there own life.

I kill them with kindness, really I care less what they think!
 
Aug 24, 2003
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I battled my in laws for 8 years. Always respected them even when they stepped out of line.

One day I just went off and shocked the shit out of them. They slowed it down a bit, but still didn't stop.

Til one day we get a phone call and my lady starts crying after she hung up. I asked what happened and her mom said her dad was having shortness of breath, heart burn & was feeling light headed for the past 2 hours. They didn't have a clue as to what was going on.

I turned around and went back to what I was doing knowing damn well what was happening. 3 seconds later I turn back and tell my lady to get her mom on the phone. She started to tell me not to cause drama & I shut her up and told her to get her mom on the phone.

My mother in law answered the phone & I simply stated, "On the playground where I spent most of my days. Chilling out, maxing, relaxing all cool, and all shooting some b-ball outside of the school. When a couple of guys who were up to no good, started making trouble in my neighborhood! I got in one little fight and my mom got scared and said 'you're moving with your aunt and uncle in Bel-Air'!"

fixed
 
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I only Respect Elders.. if they are truly wise..
Like Mr Miygagi .. or Yoda..

wise sages with mystical knowledge as well as life lessons
are the type of elders i respect..

if someone is older yet makes stupid choices in life..
i will not respect them....

Oh yeah also Master Splinter.. from Ninjas Turtles is another
elder I Respect.. as well as Raiden from Mortal Kombat
 

Mike Manson

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I respect my parents in law, but I won't let them tell me how to raise my son. In China normally the grandparents raise the kids or at least help. I wouldn't let them though. I want to raise my son a certain way and I don't like the way they raised their kids or are raising their other grandchildren.

They respected my decision though.
 
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on some real shit tho...i respect old people who deserve respect. if they used they time to do something productive and respectful, ima sit there n try to soak up as much game as i can.

a lot of people are fuck ups tho, n i look down on them no matter how old they are...
 
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I only Respect Elders.. if they are truly wise..
Like Mr Miygagi .. or Yoda..

wise sages with mystical knowledge as well as life lessons
are the type of elders i respect..

if someone is older yet makes stupid choices in life..
i will not respect them....

Oh yeah also Master Splinter.. from Ninjas Turtles is another
elder I Respect.. as well as Raiden from Mortal Kombat
just stop, u were makin videos with a kix box over ur face. thinkin u were the joker.
 
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How many of you live by the saying "Respect your elders"? If you do, do you draw the line anywhere?

My girl's cousin's fiance (who is like 60) tried to tell me something and I told him not to tell me how to raise my son. My girl's aunt and cousin jumped all over me and told me I need to watch what I say, who I say it to, and to respect my elders no matter what.
hold up.. this guy is like 60.. with a fiance who is half his age. clearly he's done something right in life! i say take heed to any bit of knowledge he's willing to drop, & strive to emulate his incredible level success with the prime pussu.
 

NAMO

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How many of you live by the saying "Respect your elders"? If you do, do you draw the line anywhere?

My girl's cousin's fiance (who is like 60) tried to tell me something and I told him not to tell me how to raise my son. My girl's aunt and cousin jumped all over me and told me I need to watch what I say, who I say it to, and to respect my elders no matter what. After a whole day of being disrespected by these two, I blew up on her cousin and told her the only people from the family whose feelings I give a fuck about are my girl's parents, brother, and his son....and that I won't give anybody respect unless they earn that shit.

Any of you bump heads with in-laws and the relatives? It's been an interesting fuckin' day, and after all the abuse I told 'em all to lick it.

What would you do?

DISCUSS.
For me, I don't give a fuck who it is, if they are being disrespectful they will get told. First day meeting them or 1st day married it would be the same and I couldn't give a fuck what they thought about it.

I have seen many people just let shit slide for years, some for over 30-40 years and it just builds and builds till they explode or self distruct. I don't think its worth being respectful for the fuck of it or not to upset anyone who gives a fuck? You only get one life in this game.

i respect knowledge. some elders steer wrong, those with knowledge and the wisdom to use it properly get the respect
I respect heart.