Question for the married folk
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marriage is a l ot of work. and its not all peaches and cream. wanna have a happy marriage? don;t have kids mayne. my advice. think of it like this, after a long day at work, you come home feed the kids, do the homework, put em in bed. by 9pm, your wife is tired, and so are you. and its a wrapola. if you coll with that lifestyle thats how its gonna be, unless you a millionaire. lol
my marriage ended within the past 6 months, I truly thought I was happy...but now that im single...life seems a whole lot better.
I was married to a model, so the jessica alba thing I can feel. But peep this...After you get past the inital attraction, all bitches are the same. Looks don't mean your going to have a better marriage, honestly it puts a whole lot more stress on it. Top notch bitches get hit on daily, and if you aren't comfortable with it...then prepare for drama that you nor she asked for.
When I was married...i wasnt going out having any fun. Just laid up and home getting fat. Not much excitement, we had no kids either.
Today..im loving life. High siding around town in my clean ass ride. And peep this, If I would go to a strip club when i was married it was like throwing money away. Friday night I went to pure platinum, spent under a note, and got the digits. I Just spent the past 3 hours with the breezie in le mesa, not on no payher shit either, just straight flights to beantown.
yip yip
fuck marriage
I was married to a model, so the jessica alba thing I can feel. But peep this...After you get past the inital attraction, all bitches are the same. Looks don't mean your going to have a better marriage, honestly it puts a whole lot more stress on it. Top notch bitches get hit on daily, and if you aren't comfortable with it...then prepare for drama that you nor she asked for.
When I was married...i wasnt going out having any fun. Just laid up and home getting fat. Not much excitement, we had no kids either.
Today..im loving life. High siding around town in my clean ass ride. And peep this, If I would go to a strip club when i was married it was like throwing money away. Friday night I went to pure platinum, spent under a note, and got the digits. I Just spent the past 3 hours with the breezie in le mesa, not on no payher shit either, just straight flights to beantown.
yip yip
fuck marriage
do u have a camera in my house?? lol
most days thats exactly how it is...
so if u want a good marriage u gotta work at it..
i like being married but remember u gotta live with this person through alot of bs. so everyday aint a good one or a bad one. but the key is to work at it. and try and keep it fresh...and dont be selfish .
most days thats exactly how it is...
so if u want a good marriage u gotta work at it..
i like being married but remember u gotta live with this person through alot of bs. so everyday aint a good one or a bad one. but the key is to work at it. and try and keep it fresh...and dont be selfish .
so far married life has been good to me .........when i need my space my wife so far has pretty much given it to me...I get some complaining from her from time to time, but with all of my ex-relationships i've gotten that, so no big deal. I smoke, drink pretty much when i want, but @ the same time im man enough to know when a good time for that is, since we got 4 kids together cant always party . I've been to house partys where there have been drunk ass fine bitches and my wife doesnt seem to worry about it (maybe b/c most of the time im partying with her bro's..........) but with that said they know im a dude and shit if we see a fine ass girl we hit on her, and they dont rat me out (cool ass brothers in laws, lol)..........Anyway being married is a lot of work like any relationship u have, just more involved b/c when u get mad, u still live under the same roof and u cant just split on her........I was never into the married thing and never wanted to get married but my wife (bless her) is the best woman ever, she cooks, cleans takes real good care of me (i know it's a 2 way street so of course i do my part) we've only been married 3 years but so far so good...........i always have temptation to just go out and fuck other bitches but then i realized if i were married or not, id feel the same way.
pretty much sums it up for me
pretty much sums it up for me
i remember when i thought of having dogs like it was some fucked up responsibility and now i cant do shit. and for a second it was like that, i couldnt run around town all day if i had to feed my dogs and teach them what and what not to do and etc etc...dog training classes at petco and potty training and all that. but now that i look at it and my dogs are older and smart enough where they can hold shit down and i can bounce, it makes it a little easier. and they make life less boring. they hold the house down and know the schedule..
that has little to do with marriage but my point is, single life gets lonely
no matter how many strippers boss you up and how many other hoes your fucking and etc etc sooner or later you WILL becmoe the old nigga in the club
its cool to vibe with a person, even outside of the fights theres times that cannot be captured just by having a friend or a acquaintance
i always thought of like....having someone whos down for your cause and your hustle that you can trust from the opposite gender was tight..everyone needs a partner in crime....i know some single people and they aint as happy as they make it look
thats all imma say about that
i know my life is crazy cuz i gotta deal with bullshit on behalf of a female sometimes but id rather have someone than not..
im at an age where i wouldnt naysay having kids because fuck...i wanna see another me, honestly. ive done alot of shit and i wanna try somethin new.
im making my kid wear a fake rasta hat with dreads for the entire years of age 2-4..until he can grow his shit out...for shame
that has little to do with marriage but my point is, single life gets lonely
no matter how many strippers boss you up and how many other hoes your fucking and etc etc sooner or later you WILL becmoe the old nigga in the club
its cool to vibe with a person, even outside of the fights theres times that cannot be captured just by having a friend or a acquaintance
i always thought of like....having someone whos down for your cause and your hustle that you can trust from the opposite gender was tight..everyone needs a partner in crime....i know some single people and they aint as happy as they make it look
thats all imma say about that
i know my life is crazy cuz i gotta deal with bullshit on behalf of a female sometimes but id rather have someone than not..
im at an age where i wouldnt naysay having kids because fuck...i wanna see another me, honestly. ive done alot of shit and i wanna try somethin new.
im making my kid wear a fake rasta hat with dreads for the entire years of age 2-4..until he can grow his shit out...for shame
having a wife is dope. i look at it like this. i partied hard until i was 26. that was plenty of partying. you name it, it got done. from drugs being around to bad bitches and everything in between. but i got tired of it and needed to get right and my wife allowed me to be myself and be my best friend. when the world was dieing around me she held me down. never thought a chick would be my best friend, and look now...... all these dudes i thought were og's and cool as fuck turned out to be bitches and assholes and my wife ended up being what makes me happy.
i traded in street cred for fatherhood and blowing money drinking and fucking bitches for the realest chick i ever had.
i think i made out ok.
but i will say marriage isnt for everyone. all the posts above cover it. but when you ready to settle down, you will know.
i traded in street cred for fatherhood and blowing money drinking and fucking bitches for the realest chick i ever had.
i think i made out ok.
but i will say marriage isnt for everyone. all the posts above cover it. but when you ready to settle down, you will know.
marriage sounds cool but so many problems and you never know whats going to happen. your wife could leave you, pass away, or be fucking someone behind your back. you could be old and single no matter how hard u try to be with someone because they could pass away. I just smoke weed and stay single. The way I look at it I would rather be lonely than to have all the problems that come with a relationship.