I'm an idiot and have never learned how to do the multiple quotes in one post thing -- so I will just put your comments that I'd like to respond to in quotations.
"Have you ever known anyone close in your life in a vegetated state? I have. One of my best friends was in a state like this for 5 years before he passed away. It was sad to see him like that and although I *wished* he could get better, I knew inside he never would and to be honest, it was a bit of a relief when he died."
I know I personally wouldn't like to be in a vegitative state. I have told people after hearing about her lack of a living will to try to keep me for 2, 3 months tops.
However, we shouldn't interject OUR opinion when we don't know what hers is. Her husband says one thing, and someone (this "Cyndi" person) said that he admitted to lying about it. At least her family can point to her religion to show where Terri might be coming from.
If we don't know what Terri wanted, we have to err on the side of life. That way, if we are found to be wrong, we can quickly reverse it.
"It’s funny how you say this woman has three of her senses. So because her eyes are open she can see? Her brain can register what she “sees?” My homie could “see.” His eyes would move and sometimes his eyes would lock on to an object. At times it seemed as if he was looking at me. But, as the doctors informed us, I knew he wasn’t capable of registering any of these objects and was absent of any thoughts. From time to time he would yawn and move his head from left to right. Sometimes, it would even seem as if he responds to something someone said. A yawn or a certain movement at the right time. But, the other times, he would stare off into the distance, completely void of any expression or movement."
Yes, her eyes were open, she would move and concentrate on the relevant person/item during the discussion. This leads me to believe there's at least a possibility that she has this sense.
And correct me if I'm wrong, as I obviously don't know your friends situation, but did he only have biased doctors whos hospital was partially financed by someone's lawyer, like in this situation? Hell, even one of the biased doctors in question said he has been shocked by Terri's awareness.
"Personally, I think the parents are selfish, full of illusions and wishful thinking, in complete denial of science and disbelief of professional doctors. The video they provided as “proof” that she is alive is over a period of several weeks and edited to make it seem as if she is responding.
I could have done the same to my homeboy. I could have taken a video camera, pointed it at him and talked to him until he moved, yawned or created what looks like an expression, edited the tape to only show the times where it appears he is responding, and gave it to people as “proof.” "
Once again. These professional doctors, as you failed to argue, so I'll assume you conceed, are biased. Independent doctors believe that she has the possibility to make some recovery.
And where do you get this story about the video being edited over the course of weeks? Is this wishful thinking? I've not heard of this.
"This woman has been in this state for how long? 15 years? Do you really think anyone would want to be a vegetable for 15 years?!? Would you? It’s not like the woman can grow a new brain…she’s done…she can never get better. She has NO CEREBRAL CORTEX. (Even Bill O’Reilly is smart enough to know this,
http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,151122,00.html)"
Once again, my wishes, nor your wishes for ourselves is relevant here. And like MEDICAL EXPERTS WITH NO AGENDA (you're not one -- neither are the doctors you're citing, unless you've heard from one who has seen her outside of the 4 I mentioned are either) say, she DOES have the possibility to get better. If she had no possibility of getting better, why is her husband so terrified of allowing a warm cloth to be placed on Terri's hand, for fear of it being called "therapy"? If shes beyond therapy, they can keep that towel on her hand for the rest of my life -- it won't matter to him.
By the way, I can't stand Bill O'Reilly.
"Theresa's brain has deteriorated because of the lack of oxygen it suffered a the time of her heart attack...at this point, much of her cerebral cortex is simply gone and has been replaced by cerebral spinal fluid. Medicine cannot cure this condition. Unless an act of God, a true miracle, were to recreate her brain, Theresa will always remain in an unconscious, reflexive state, totally dependent on others..."
Another quote gained from information from these 4 doctors, many of whom press adamantly for euthanization, or who don't think one needs to see a patient to diagnose it. Garbage.
And how is she unconscious? Is she not moving? Is she not blinking? Don't we keep other members of our society alive that are "totally dependent on others"?
"You know what’s really funny? How people think politicians really give a fuck about this veggie.
"While governor of Texas,
"George W. Bush signed a law in Texas that expressly gave hospitals the right to remove life support if the patient could not pay and there was no hope of revival, regardless of the patient's family's wishes. It is called the Texas Futile Care Law. Under this law, a baby was removed from life support against his mother's wishes in Texas just this week."
See
http://www.chron.com/cs/CDA/ssistory.mpl/front/3087387"
Read that. No hope of revival. I'm not sure if this baby had a chance of revival, but all objective experts who have seen the Schaivo case believe she does have a chance. This case is an apple to the Terri situation (an orange).
"So what is moral? Only if you can fucking PAY, you have the right to live, if you’re poor, who fucking cares?"
Yawn. Keep your hatred for the successful out of this post. It's more irrelevant than me telling people I'm going to see Ron White on April 9th.
"If I were a vegetable, I would think it’s pretty damn selfish of me to want to stay alive. I would not want my family and friends to have to pay for 24 hour
skilled nursing care, which costs thousands and thousands of dollars to do so (I think in this woman’s case, $80,000/year) while I shit and piss myself and drool on some hospital bed. I can only hope that if I am ever in this fucked up situation I create a will before I'm in this state, that clearly states not to keep me alive if I'm in a vegitated state."
I agree with you. However, she may not. I hope both of us are able to have our wills enacted if this should happen to either of us. She will have to serve as a lesson.