OHHH YEAH!
- Thread starter Portuguese Godfather
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see thats all bad too......if yall do want to get away and she takes the car then your stuck at home......
are you telling me you and your girlfriend have never gotten in to an argument where you just like "fuck you im outta here"
im just trying to give you a diffrent view.....i aint tryna jinx you or tryna preach.....just gotta think of all the possibilitys...
are you telling me you and your girlfriend have never gotten in to an argument where you just like "fuck you im outta here"
im just trying to give you a diffrent view.....i aint tryna jinx you or tryna preach.....just gotta think of all the possibilitys...
If you have the "fuck you i'm outta here" attitude, you shouldn't be in the relationship in the first place!
Relationships are about compromise and communication. If you can't have that, you ain't workin with much.
If the female says, "fuck you I'm leaving," I would leave too and not come back. You dont' walk out on someone when you're in a relationship with them and you love them, even if you're arguing or something.
People that walk out and come back are sad in my opinion. They can't deal with the situation at hand, so they act like a 5-year old and run away from the conflict, only to come back and HOPE that it's "blown over" so they dont' have to deal with it. Fuck that shit. Life is about dealing with situations whether they are expected or unexpected, pleasant or unpleasant. People just want the easy way out, which is almost never beneficial in the long run.
Relationships are about compromise and communication. If you can't have that, you ain't workin with much.
If the female says, "fuck you I'm leaving," I would leave too and not come back. You dont' walk out on someone when you're in a relationship with them and you love them, even if you're arguing or something.
People that walk out and come back are sad in my opinion. They can't deal with the situation at hand, so they act like a 5-year old and run away from the conflict, only to come back and HOPE that it's "blown over" so they dont' have to deal with it. Fuck that shit. Life is about dealing with situations whether they are expected or unexpected, pleasant or unpleasant. People just want the easy way out, which is almost never beneficial in the long run.
I'm guessing it would take over a couple years to save up money for a down payment on a home. Which is probably why they saved up what they did, to move where they are moving, because it's not insanely expensive.
Either way, if you put a down payment on a house, doesn't it have to be something like 10%? You ain't gonna save $20,000 in 2 years unless you're 1) selling drugs and saving your money 2) have a great fucking job or 3) have a trust fund, or a rich family, or a rich girlfriend or whatever.
Buying a house isn't realistic for people JUST GETTING OUT OF HIGH SCHOOL!
Either way, if you put a down payment on a house, doesn't it have to be something like 10%? You ain't gonna save $20,000 in 2 years unless you're 1) selling drugs and saving your money 2) have a great fucking job or 3) have a trust fund, or a rich family, or a rich girlfriend or whatever.
Buying a house isn't realistic for people JUST GETTING OUT OF HIGH SCHOOL!
I didn't say it was easy. Nothing is easy if it's going to benefit you in the long run, most of the time that is (nothing is 100% for sure all the time). Relationships aren't easy at all, they take work. Most people think they'll find that person they just "fit" with and never have to work on anything at all, that's not reality.
I know that things don't always go the way we hope they do. I'm saying, you roll with the punches but you don't take shit from people, especially if they are disrespecting your relationship. If someone does it over and over, they obviously dont' care enough to change their negative behavior, which means they aren't worth being a relationship with, they are 50/50.
It's about being honest with yourself and the people around you. If you lie to yourself because you think it'll make you happy, all you're doing is fucking the people around you. And I dont' mean "you" as in someone specific, I'm just speaking in general.
I know that things don't always go the way we hope they do. I'm saying, you roll with the punches but you don't take shit from people, especially if they are disrespecting your relationship. If someone does it over and over, they obviously dont' care enough to change their negative behavior, which means they aren't worth being a relationship with, they are 50/50.
It's about being honest with yourself and the people around you. If you lie to yourself because you think it'll make you happy, all you're doing is fucking the people around you. And I dont' mean "you" as in someone specific, I'm just speaking in general.