Long Distance Relationships...

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Aug 26, 2002
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I was in one with a girl from KC, met her here in the STL. She had to go back home because of school. Everything was great, saw her every weekend, whether I was going there or she herre. We were together a lil over a year. The thing that killed it was the fact she did not believe in my music shit. She thought I was chasing to big of a dream. She gonna feel really stupid real soon too. But I think they can work, but u talking different coasts girl??!!!! That might be a lil hard to maintain.
 
May 4, 2002
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it can work but more times it just dosent work, i been in two the first one lasted a few months before stuff went south, really on that one it was going to fall apart anyways both falling into temptation and wanting to talk with other people, the second one i was a few years older it lasted like half a year ended on sort of a bad note but turned out to be good after a year or so, we on good terms now and wouldnt be suprised if we link up down the line, just like the old saying if its meant to be it will probably happen, both people just have to want it. Also Jesse James can feel that, i think some females not all just got the wrong assumption when you tell them you are doing some stuff with music, they think you talking like you want to be the next jay z when in reality all your trying to do is make a impact on another level.
 
Aug 31, 2003
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Sergeant Hustle said:
I know where she lives foo. We are not exclusive at this point and probably won't be for awhile. I'm not trippin off her cheatin'. I'm not interested in a relationship of that calibur. However if it does develop into that, I wanted to get people's takes on it.

this is kind of off subject, but i've heard people say this a couple of times and i don't really understand it. when is it ok to not cheat and how would that be fair to the other person? if the both of you start a relationship and you all agree on seeing other people and then you start getting serious feelings for the person. would it be fair to them to just say ok i'm getting serious you can't see other people? to me that seems like something that can throw a relationship off, unless the both of you would like to do it at the time. i'm not trying to judge your way of going into the relationship just wondering if you could shed some light on it.
 

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Apr 25, 2002
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Sergeant Hustle said:
Can they survive? Anyone ever been in one?

You can make it work if you want to, long distance relationships can survive. I'm in one right now.
 
Jun 18, 2004
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Sergeant Hustle said:
Whateva...just because it's about relationships doens't make it a female issue.
I never said it was...this chatter looks better suited for that form...gender was never brought up by me, it just so happens that the forum most synonymous with this type of conversation is called "sister side of the siccness."...get it...sister?
 
May 12, 2002
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Hey Sergeant. I dont know how long its been since i read yur name on my monitor. I was in a 3 year long distance relationship, and while we did both stay faithful, in the end when we got back together, we grew into totally different people. We were not like we thought we would be, and it didnt last 3 months after we got back together.

Maybe Adults have better luck with that since they people are usually set in their ways by the time thier grown. Find a good one that matches you, and i bet it can work.