well, i'll just say this...
only telling a child ONE way of life, is a shitty way to parent. there are multiple life styles, and values...and parents that say, "this is the best one, you will be this," are shitty people because they won't let their child develop by themself without being told "this is ok for you, and this is not," and never giving the child a chance to really learn for themself...it's like telling a child, "you are not allowed to be gay, or i'll never talk to you again." and that is related to religion.
it's like saying the only way to eat a hamburger is with nothing but burger, bun, and ketchup...rather than having it YOUR way (lol)...you can make life what you want it to be, whether you want to or not...people just need to realize they have the control most of the time...