There is this girl at my job and my cousin, they keep their homes beautiful, have cute faces the one woman comes to work with leftovers, potroast that melts in your mouth, mac and cheese, cabbage, rolls etc. She has a great personality very even tempered more than I can say for self but is overweight with no man. I always wonder why would a man not get with her and work out with her? But I do agree genes do matter.