Dam D-Sane thats terrible. I've seen it happen too, one of my friends in in jail until 2008 and I see his wife out in the clubs leaving with anyone and everyone.
My point of view is this: When you choose to marry someone and you TRULY love them, its for life, and you say though the good and the bad, thick and thin etc. Now some argue and say "he shouldn't have done that stupid shit to get caught up in the first place" but as his wife you sat back and let him do it so I feel as though you should also share the consequences with him. A lot of females love to reap the benefits of a man who is out there grinding on a daily or doin dirt but when he gets caught up, all of a suddon they aren't down anymore. If it was my man who got caught up, I'd wait, cause I know I'd be seeing him every 90 days for that visit. And yes, its important for your children to have a positive male role model in their life but I have 2 brothers who would help me out tremendously with that. And Dick, it really aint all that important, some females just make it out to be and I guess thats what really seperates the real from the fake.
My $0.02
My point of view is this: When you choose to marry someone and you TRULY love them, its for life, and you say though the good and the bad, thick and thin etc. Now some argue and say "he shouldn't have done that stupid shit to get caught up in the first place" but as his wife you sat back and let him do it so I feel as though you should also share the consequences with him. A lot of females love to reap the benefits of a man who is out there grinding on a daily or doin dirt but when he gets caught up, all of a suddon they aren't down anymore. If it was my man who got caught up, I'd wait, cause I know I'd be seeing him every 90 days for that visit. And yes, its important for your children to have a positive male role model in their life but I have 2 brothers who would help me out tremendously with that. And Dick, it really aint all that important, some females just make it out to be and I guess thats what really seperates the real from the fake.
My $0.02